Does anyone elses wife bother them when they are trying to do work on the computer?
And no i am not reffering to yahoo or any games
i am referring to actual buisness and correspondance courses i am doing.
Does anyone know how to make her let me alone for a while so i can do my work and classes? I am not asking much just an hour a day to do courses and stuff.
I have tried explaining to her if i do the classes i can get points toward my promotion
Any insight?
2007-02-04 04:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by soldiermedic23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
try to make a set date with your wife ,after your work . Like when you are finnished working take her out so she can have some r/r time with you alone without the PC !
I understand My husband was in the Army too and I know that a lot of those couses are required to get the promotions!
MAybe you can get your wifes girlfriends to go out with her when you take yor cousres . Let her know the importance of the impending promotion!
2007-02-04 04:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not being straightforward with her. You need to tell her straight out that for example 6pm-8pm is off limits. I need time alone to do my coursework and I would appreciate it if you would help in preventing disturbances. Is the computer in a neutral zone in the house. Maybe it should be moved somewhere where you can close the door until you are finished. If you have a laptop, better, you can go anywhere. If this still does not work, maybe you could go to the library, a family member, or a friends house. Just make sure that the friend is not a woman or this will cause more problems. Good Luck.
2007-02-04 04:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she understand with increase rank = a higher pay scale for each grade. Is there soemthign u both are looking saving for.. maybe explainging that if u want a newer car better vacations.. my schooling will achieve a higher rank & more pay. Though how often are you around her also? Do you only see her a few hours a night? Or set aside time with her only & do somethign with her that should would like. Does she have any friends of hers she can go shopping, hair etc with. SGT. D US Army
2007-02-04 04:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by cdsport_99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kindly explain to her that you need an hour of quiet time to work on your classes. Let her know you need to concentrate. Tell her you would be more than happy to spend time with her as soon as you are finished studying.
2007-02-04 04:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by miyazaki75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask her to stop?? If you have then I think it is pretty rude that she will not let you do your work..I as a female think its time you just tell her that she bieng rude and she should find something to do with her time when your working..She could read a good book,do crafts,scrapbook,ect.. Good Luck hope this helps for you
2007-02-04 05:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her..let her knwo you cant concentrate on your work with her standing there bugging you..dont use those words tho..let her know how you feel and to give you some time when your working on line with classes and stuff..if that dont work..lock the door behind you!
good luck
2007-02-04 04:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she is just bored . You could try and get her interested in doing something for herself that she may enjoy then use the time she is away for your courses.
2007-02-04 05:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her on errands or the spa, send her shopping. Make love to her and put her to sleep.
2007-02-04 05:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by LucyBoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out how, I would love to know. My husband is the same way!
2007-02-04 07:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her a computer also to keep her busy. Or like a psp or tell her *** to get in the kitchen
2007-02-04 04:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by dunno 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋