A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-04 04:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Avoid him as much as possible. He was just trying to get you in bed and he keep saying derogatory things to you like you are weird. There are a lot of fish in the sea and you need someone who cares for your heart not just getting sex. Take care Heather
2007-02-04 04:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I have a rule of not dating anybody that I work with. If it doesn't work out, then work is not a comfortable place to be and somebody ends up quitting. Look for another job or keep your distance from this guy at all costs. Can you transfer within the company to a different area or even town?
2007-02-04 12:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a scum bag. I didn't even have to read the rest of it when you said he told you he had to sleep with you. DROP THAT ***. Don't do it girl, you're better than him! Office romances don't work anyways, it sounds to me like all he wanted was a piece of ***, you're so much better than him. This make me really angry, guys like that. Any guy that even breaks your heart if youre not in a relationship, that's a terrible sign of things to come. I know he may be hotter than hell, but he's got the mind of a 19 year old. Diss him
2007-02-04 13:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has gf. End of the story.
You shouldn´t even mention that you had a crush on him, in the first place.
Thats why you both ended up like this!!!!
You took yourself to this point.
2007-02-04 13:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by aais 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to be friends with you but dont know what to do siene all that has happen. Why dont you go up to him and say hi to him first to brake the ice again. He will come around and talk to you again when he want some one to talk to or he brakes up with the girlfriend he has now.
2007-02-04 13:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by cuttie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him! he is a loser with a girlfriend. Any guy that will get into sexual conversations with another woman while having a GF is a loser. If he did it to his current GF, he will do it to you too. Just ignore him.
2007-02-04 13:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just part company with this guy, and the both of you can do your own thing.
2007-02-04 12:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like you can't make up your minds to me.
2007-02-04 12:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes just gay
2007-02-04 12:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats mean
2007-02-04 12:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋