When we started dating, my girlfreind said until i put a ring on her finger, i have no right to tell her what to do and what not to. what has evolved is something strange - we go out without rules, but there is no question that we be safe for each other, and we are a deffinite couple.
as for me, i have no interest in anything but flirting. she goes out about once a month with freinds she made in college, and though sometimes they go bowling or to the movies, they like to dance. its usually just sexy dancing, but she's made out with the guys - and twice in the year and a half since we met, she's ended up in a back seat.
2007-02-04 04:51:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude shes not worth it, if you decide to marry her she'll probably cheat on you. if thats cool with you that go right ahead. But personaly i would be with someone like that at all. Just leave her and find yourself someone better, there are 6billon people on the plant and half are girls, i dont think you'll have a problem.
2007-02-04 05:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something: that behavior will not change even after you put a ring on her finger. She sounds like she has no interest in taking a relationship or commitment seriously, so unless you can get used to it, you should think about nipping this one in the bud.
2007-02-04 04:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is acceptable to you then you and your girlfriend are made for each other. If not, it's time to tell her it's not ok and maybe find a new one. I think your girl needs to learn the definition of commitment. Commitment does not need a ring to exist. If she can't commit to you without one, what makes you think she will with one?
2007-02-04 04:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what your definition of the word is. If you have made no committment to her, then she can do whatever she wants. Even after you get married, you still have no say over her. Marriage is not ownership, it's a partnership. Witch each side living the vows they made to the other.
2007-02-04 04:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but that is the definition of $lut but if you don't mind the smell of another man on your girl then is your choice. Just make sure the baby is yours when the time comes.
2007-02-04 05:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe that this is a relationship that is satisfactory to you? I would give her all the freedom she wants, then find yourself someone who will appreciate you and treat you better.
If you are in a relationship with someone, sleeping around is a no-no. I don't know that it makes you a slut, it certainly makes you a cheat.
2007-02-04 04:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro - she's gotta go. The only exception is if you like it this way, but sounds like you don't. If your arrangement is friends with benefits, cool. But if you are supposed to be dating, no man, that sh*t ain't cool. A backseat banger is probably not what you are looking for anyway.
2007-02-04 04:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until you put that ring on her finger that says she's the only one you'll ever have sex with for the rest of your lives our gf is right. Have fun while the sun shines, Dude! .
2016-03-29 04:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definately a $lut. Why would you want to "put a ring on her finger" ?? She's a ho. Ditch The *****
2007-02-04 05:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship is this?????? You guys are not a couple if you think it is okay to cheat. She my not be a slut but does not deserve a ring either!
2007-02-04 04:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Flipp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋