Someone not good looking asked you out???
I can't even stare at girls cuz I'm afraid that they will feel offended or something...I'm not a good looking guy but I'm smart,neat,nice and caring.I'm studying dentistry too.
should I wait till I become a rich dentist so I can start dating?
2007-02-04 04:51:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares if they are offended? They can just say no.
You have to realize that God made you the way he did and that's what you have to work with. Are you going to say that because of the way you think you look, you are not willing to participate in life? Go ahead and ask a few girls out. Some may say no but then again, some will say yes.
2007-02-04 04:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill be real honest with ya. alright, at first girls wont really want to have to deal with you, because well theyre just immature... so what you can do is get close to them as a friend, (not best friend, or else when you ask them out it will be too weird)... when its about friends looks really dont matter as long as you show them how great your personality is. then ask them out on a date, that will let them know you like them.. and well they will consider it since you guys are already friends and they might say yes or no, you gotta be ready for either one and be strong and just move on, dont get deppressed or anything cuz theres a lot of fish in the ocean. so then after that keep trying to get close to them, do a little flirting and yeah everything has to be done slowly... dont go too fast or youll scare them away...
Oh and one more thing honey... NEVER EVER THINK THAT YOUR LOOKS WILL OFFEND ANYONE. thats not true. and im pretty sure u wouldnt really be happy knowing that ur girl is only with you because u have money, would you? think about it. your personality is all that matters at the end.
2007-02-04 13:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by BellezaLatina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't just pick a girl out of a crowd and go ask, you have to have something in common to get the conversation going. Once that is established, go ahead and ask, everybody has a different opinion on what is or is not good looking. I'll tell you a little story.........a friend of mine was very attractive young woman. Her boyfriend was very homely,but had great traits and enjoyed life. They are still together 30years later,and no he didn't have plastic surgery,he's just a cool guy. Just be the smart,nice,caring person you describe yourself to be, love is always around the next corner. Good luck.
2007-02-04 12:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any girl who would be actually OFFENDED by the guy asking her out who is not attractive enough for her. And there is someone like that, I would prefer avoid that person, since it is ridiculous and shallow. What could be offending in the guy, is rudeness and arrogance. So when you will be "rich" one day, please don't become that kind of jerk who thinks everybody should date him just because he is a dentist.
And don't forget, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I had the best time of my life with the guys who didn't look like supermodels, but had a great personality...
2007-02-04 13:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by talenavi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not wait- do you really want a woman who only cares about money? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder- try online dating making friends with women first. Let them know the real you, and then romance will happen for the right reasons.
2007-02-04 12:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by A42381 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be offended but then I have matured to an age where looks are only the wrapping on the package. I am more interested in the person you are inside.
Why should you wait to date when you could be have adventures now?
2007-02-04 12:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!!
Who says your not good looking anyway?
You care about yourself and are a caring person.
So why have you got to be a rich dentist before
you start dating? We all deserve to be happy and
if you would want to go out with someone just
because you had money - how shallow is that?
As long as you have a personality you have evrything.
Good Luck.
2007-02-04 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel complimented even when a child looks twice at me. It's not about the sexuality, it's about my looking interesting enough to be glanced at a second time. I would never feel offended..........
2007-02-04 12:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be offended its not whats on the outside, but whats on the inside that matters. if you really are nice, caring and all those other things, there shouldn't be an issue with it! i say go for it and tell me how it goes!
Good Luck!!
2007-02-04 12:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by maddog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to wait till your late 40's or 50's
If a girl is worried about how you look, You DON'T NEED HER.
2007-02-04 12:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋