Saturday 3, my boyfriend told me that he had hung out with a few friends, kind of like a guys night out. He didn't mention any girls till later on, he told me that when they got back to her house, that there were other guys there. He was so tired that he passed out on the bed, when he woke up, there were a bunch of people lying around him, and a guy at the foot of the bed. When I called him back, he changed the story... he said that when he woke up, a girl was laying next to him, and the other girl was sleeping on the couch. So asked him about the guy, he said, "Yeah, he was walking in and out of the room..." Then, as we sat and talked, his story changed again! He said that the other girl on the couch, was in her room this time, and that the girl next to him, was laying very close to him, and resting her head on his arm. So of course it was bothering me, and I had to ask, What happend? And figuring the answer that I was going to get, he answered, "Nothing..." There's more to the story
2007-02-04 04:48:40 · 29 answers · asked by No 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only accept his apology if you can also accept AIDS, hepatitis, venereal warts, herpes.........................................
Get the picture?
2007-02-04 04:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by thefinalresult 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care what the story is, how many times he's ALREDY LIED ABOUT IT, or how long you two have been together....
DUMP HIS AZZ! Dont ever take back a guy you cant trust, or depend on...he is sleeping around behind your back, then lied to you about it a few different times. tell his sorry azz to get a new gf, bc your better than him and you dont need that kind of person to break your heart and your relationship.... you need a man you can trust. and HONEST man, a mature man...and obvioulsly he is not the one. dont bother with any more of his excuses, just dump him and keep it at that... guys like that piss me off so bad, that little bia...
2007-02-04 04:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without having to read the whole thing, DON'T ACCEPT HIS APOLOGY. This guy is a f***ing lier and you shouldn't have put up with him the first time he changed his story. This is just the beginning of a long road of deception and lies. Save yourself this headache and kick him out of the house NOW girl.
You deserve someone who appreciates you.
2007-02-04 05:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel as though you got the truth out of him then forgive him for being human. Feel free do the something and you are even. Will he be understanding if you do? Better yet, have an understanding in your relationship and enjoy all that life has to offer. You will both benefit form this
2007-02-04 04:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by bobbelate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny how God can forgive but none of the women on here can. JD even thinks she should send him to be gay! Wow! I can feel the love here! But in this case I have to agree, he's hiding alot. If his story is changing that much, he more than likely screwed up. But, I wasn't there so I don't know for sure.
2007-02-04 05:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he slept with another girl, then i guess you don't mean as much to him as you think. If he woke up with all theese guys around him, then he must of had sex with them.
but then if the girl, was in the other room, they could of been puling a train on her. And he fell asleep wating for his turn to come around again. If he woke up with a girl ,with her head on his arm, then maybe she gave him a head job till they both fell asleep.
2007-02-04 04:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a liar and a cheater. If nothing happened, he wouldn't have changed his story so many times becaus ehe would have been able to remember the truth. Dump his sorry butt, and find someone that has more respect for you than that.
2007-02-04 04:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why most girls are moron ? If your boyfriend / husband cheat on you one time, trust me...it will be happen again next time, sooner or later...
One thing you must do : say goodbye !!! Find yourself a better man. There's a lot of good man out there....
2007-02-05 11:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanks everyone for the advice, it helps to know that someone has common sense. I just don't know what to do, because he confessed, and told me that they did make out, and he felt her breasts, but no one "touched" anyone's "genitals" and they didn't reach 2nd base... I told him that I didn't believe him. He said that he couldn't resist, and I understand what he was talking about, but then he tried to cover it up by saying that they didn't even make out, because it didn't last no more then 2 mins.... and then they talked about it after wards. He kept calling her special because she told him her "past" and that she had gone through a lot. And that he felt sorry for her, he ended up getting upset, saying I didn't do anything! It ended up leading to me crying about my past, and how it was hurting so much, not knowing what to do about it... I went to bed that night with blood shot eyes. I called him this morning... I still know that I wont feel comfortable around him for a while. But I have my reasons for not breaking up with him.
2007-02-04 05:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten's Reply 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been through this, and trust me, its obvious he's a liar. I think your best bet would be to say good bye. Don't worry about how long you've been together or what you have been through with him, because obviously he wasn't worried about that when he was having the time of his life with god knows who, god knows where, doing god knows what. So, God knows you should get out of the relationship!
2007-02-04 04:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a guy have the gut to cheat on u, it mean will know how to get way from it next time.
in which i mean once a cheater aways a cheater.
you u deeply care of him, u can stay in the relationship to see if u can handle it and see how he will cange to the better. and from there u will see if he meant what he said how not.
man don't cheat on same girls and they know why, so if a guy have the gut to cheat on you, he will know how to get his way around you when he does it again.
2007-02-04 04:58:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋