Why is it so hard for people to just simply say, "Hey, I like you, you're a great friend, and I want you to know that if you're ever open to more, I'm open to that, but either way, I still want to be your friend"? I've never seen a friendship ruined by this, yet seen many great relationships start this way, including mine. Why do so many people feel they have to ask everyone else how someone feels, and not the person themself? If you really like/love someone, it's okay to admit it. I don't regret ever saying it, and I don't know anyone that does. Wouldn't it be easier than the whole guessing game all the time? If we can't be honest with this person about how we feel, how can we be honest about anything else with them either? Life is short, why waste it wondering for months/years if someone likes you without asking them? If they like you, you can start working today on making each other happy, if they don't, you can start working today on getting over them. Either way you win, right? :)
2007-02-04 04:30:29 · 9 answers · asked by Kendra 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know and i agree with you. i dont know if it is confidence or what, but sometimes you got to grab a pair and just find out for yourself.
2007-02-04 05:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the answer above, that people fear rejection. In your case you may have been lucky but in others people can be pretty rude about rejecting. People will fear it, but all those months and years don't always go to waste when people do end up falling in love. It sometimes just takes time and it depends on the persons confidence.
2007-02-04 12:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here here! Bravissima.Oh and by the way,does she like me? She tried to run me off the road but she was smiling which I think means she really likes me....
2007-02-04 12:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is simple, people don't like rejection and they are afraid to say how they feel because they are afraid that the other party does not return the feelings
2007-02-04 12:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can be shy or insecure. They just need alittle boost.
2007-02-04 12:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the "DO THEY LIKE ME" questions. Silly
2007-02-04 12:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, thats a child for ya!
2007-02-04 12:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but does she like meeee!!!!!!
2007-02-04 15:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope i can help u
2007-02-04 12:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋