He gave me lots of reasons not to be with me and I'm finnaly fine with that. A few days after we broke up he said he still loved me. I wanted to get back with him but he said it was to soon. Now I know it was to soon but he was nicer to me when we still talked about our relationship. I have't talked about it anymore because I figured it was a weird thing to talk about after breaking up. He's never told me he dosn't love me but I know he dosn't because if he did he would want to be with me. He said he still wanted to be friends after we broke up. But now he won't talk to me unless I ask his somethig directly and he won't look at me. We have a few mutual friend and he acts weird when I'm hanging out with them. I look at him and wave but it's like I don't exsist. It kind of bothers me since we've been such good friends before and we broke up about a month ago. He's the one who didn't want me so why is he acting like I did somthing wrong? Why won't he just be my friend?
2007-02-04 04:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesnt really know how and may not really want to be just friends
2007-02-04 04:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are very subtle difference between what love and friend means to one. And many people have difficulties drawing a border between friendship and love. And that is exactly what I am able to sense here. "He" may feel not to love because of the reasons he has but deep in his heart he still loves you. He is contradicting himself with what he says and what he feels.He says he does not want to be with you but deep in his heart he wants to stay with you. My reason to say so because if he had not loved you he would have tried to be normal with your mutual friends. He is acting weird because he is not very clear on how to proceed the relationship with you. He is in a very confused state. It will take some time for him to come out of that state. If you still love him, what i suggest you is to wait for some more time to come into any conclusions about him. Things will turn out one day where he will once again willing to continue where you left your relationship. Making or breaking a relationship impacts for both of you till life time. So seriously wait for some more time, things will turn out as you like and for your good.
2007-02-04 05:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by muthu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's posssible that he could be trying to convince himself that he's over you and by doing that avoiding you and giving you the cold shoulder. What you probably should do is get him alone and tell him you both need to talk. If he says he's busy you need to be stubborn and tell him that you need to talk with him now.
2007-02-04 04:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cerantine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is moving on and the "lets be friends" thing was a put off. He is no Friend and you need to ignore him and move on!
2007-02-04 04:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Flipp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to awkward. try not to cross paths if you can help it.
2007-02-04 04:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is being immature, ignore him.
2007-02-04 04:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋