A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-04 04:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His ego is bruised right now. He thought you liked him because you confided in him and when he acted upon it, he got rejected so he is hurt. The best thing to do is give it some time start of brand new. just say hi to him then walk away and let it at that then as time goseon build up a new friendship. good luck
2007-02-04 04:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to put this in a nice way, first of all. The fact that he is doing all this while he has a girlfriend shows that he is a dog, but don't get mad at him this is all your fault. The fact that you continued to flirt while he had a girlfriend shows what type of girl you are. You looked stupid because of you, why would talk to someone in that way whom you're not committed to, or for that matter why talk that way at all? He had a girlfriend, you knew and you didn't care and in the end you ended up looking stupid. He only wanted you for your body and then decided he didn't want to risk it because you're not worth it. The fact that you apologized when he was the one that made you look stupid is demeaning and belittling to you. Don't say hi to him tell him to lose your number, and move on. If he has a girlfriend he shouldn't be worried about you anyway. He's sick and weird and you're just nasty. So become a woman and look for single men only or you're going to continue getting your heart broken honey. Good luck!
2007-02-04 12:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead and have a night out - Men usually don't pass up the chance of getting laid especially, when the woman promises not to tell anybody. Most of us are willing to take that risk.
Of course, it all depends on whether you want to shag him or not. If your morals affect you, forget about him.
2007-02-04 12:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by quilm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away from this idiot as you can. He wanted a piece of tail and when He didn't get it he turned on you. He is the weird one so ignore any correspondences and let him think what his feeble brain wants to!
2007-02-04 12:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by John A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay away from him hes trouble and no good jerk of all jerks and a loser- he was trying to get you to sleep with him while he was with his gf and had no intention of leaving her and was using reverse pshyc. on you to lure you to him. Ignore him.
2007-02-04 12:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wanted to bring out the erotcness in u that is i think he was an assole sorry for this but it really feels bad............
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2007-02-04 12:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by piratesofheart51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be confused about what exactly what he wants
2007-02-04 12:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lakay aka Mizz B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you in his own weird way
2007-02-04 12:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋