I'm a shy and sheltered 27-year old who is very lonely and depressed a lot of the time. I've been shy most of my life and because of it I never had many friends at one time. I want to make more friends just not sure how. To top if off I still live at home and I'm single and have never dated before.
I am a very creative individual and love doing artsy things on the side. I'm also into comic books, fantasy, and sci-fi things. I'm trying to get a job in graphic design, as I'm a recent grad, although it's proven more difficult than anything to get my foot in the door.
Right now I work at a sucky parttime job and can't get more hours. I do try to keep myself occupied while at home by doing the creative stuff but sometimes even THAT is not enough and I just get depressed, feeling housebound and very lonely.
I am wanting to change my life sooooo bad because I hate living an empty existance like I am now. I just don't know where to start.
2007-02-04 03:47:00 · 6 answers · asked by Lisardo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all try to meet new faces especially in the domains you're in could be in art museum or something, don't be afraid to start a conversation with a stranger (what's the worst that can happen?) and, well, shy people are usually afraid of being the receivers in a relationship or even a conversation so you ought to get over this one too, say to yourself that it is ok to be the center of attention from time to time.
2007-02-04 05:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by chadi.wehbe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to meetings for sci fi stuff and arty things and you might find a like minded shy man.
You have to get out of the house more.
Join activity clubs in your area.
find out what bars are popular with your age group
2007-02-04 03:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to places you love to go to to maybe meet someone with the same interests as you and you have got to go shopping to but you some clothes that aren't slutty show curves work out talk with poeple of whom you might be interested anywhere you go be more outgoing join clubs and don't stay in the house all day just generally be yourself and do what you love to do at the mall so you can talk to guys about things you know so you don't get all shy and not know what to talk about and work on charisma aka talk to yourself in the mirror learn how to keep a conversation going and fun and learn how to do small talk and play hard to get a little
2007-02-04 03:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-21 12:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't listen to your first post! Socialize. Go to parties, chat on IM whatever it takes. Go out on dates with new men and shopping sprees with your bff!
2007-02-04 03:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by socailbutterfly2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lift ur skirt up in public then u wont be shy anymore..u wont afford to be after that ull be a full time whore. nice 1
2007-02-04 03:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by urmum7 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋