there is this girl in my class and i like her and she said she likes me but doesnt want to go out w/ me cause she cant decide if she likes me or my best friend more wat can i do to make her like me more...................and im 13
2007-02-04 03:43:00 · 20 answers · asked by biscuit064 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're too young, you need to be hanging out with buddies, and playing video games. dude way too young. you're young, girls can wait. dont be pressured into dating just because everyone else is. you're young only once kid, dont wreck it by throwing yourself in a drama filled world.
2007-02-04 03:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm kinda old to be called a "girl" but if you want some old person advice, be yourself. If you try to "fake it" she'll know it and think you're a nerd. Be her friend first of all. Be funny (but not silly). Be 100% honest with her 100% of the time. If she EVER gets the idea that you are a liar or can't keep her secrets, she won't trust you worth a toot, and she'll never like you much. Don't put your friend down to her trying to make yourself look "big". That will have the opposite effect. Do little nice things for her like offering to carry her books (I know this sounds corny, but girls like to be treated special). In a very casual way, let her know you think about her by doing things like giving her a little something you found that brought her to your mind (just little stuff, like loaning her a book or movie that you have that you think is really good). Notice when she seems sad or angry about things and be there for her to talk to. NEVER tell others what she's told you in confidence. Good luck, hon.
2007-02-04 11:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you tell a girl that you like her and she responds with that kind of answer, what you have to do is simple. Leave her alone, dont talk to her, ignore her, because if she cant decide between you or your best friend then shes immature and she will only be with you until she finds someone better or hotter, Your better off with someone who likes YOU and not every boy she meets. And also: If you ignore a woman, she tends to want you more.
2007-02-04 11:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Curiosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your allowed going to places by yourself with people, then ask your mom if you can take her to dinner and a movie. Try to have great conversation over dinner and don't try to hard or you'll creep her out, but do make sure you try. Then make sure you see a move that's romantic but funny altogether and when the sad part comes on, don't try to make yourself cry so hard, she wants a protector to show feelings but not have the same as hers. Then make sure you put your arm around her during the movie. And bring to jackets, because it's probably going to be cold at night, so when its cold you can offer her a jacket and you won't be cold. Then at thee end of the date walk her to her house door and say, "Well I had a really good time tonight blah blah(Blah stands for her name)". When she returns the compliment lean in for the gentle but remembering kiss.
2007-02-04 11:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Pecabo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly... just forget about her. Girls at this age are so fickle! In fact since you're only thirteen - I would put off "going out" for a couple more years. Just enjoy being a guy and hanging out with your friends... this will be the only time in your life when you will have the freedom to do that. Girls bring with them a whole new set of problems and at thirteen you shouldn't have to deal with dating/relationship issues... you should just have fun!
2007-02-04 11:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Aunt Bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww buddy ur only 13 and u have so much more tyme then you think you do.
if a gurl cant decide who she likes more then i think, she doesn't like you as much as you might think.
plus i dont think you want to lose your best friend over a gurl!!!! u only have 1 BEST FRIEND but there're millions of other gurls.
i think you should tell her that you like her and if she can't decide then you should go to youre besfriend and try to heal the wounds both of you made on eah other. she's going to relize that she lost 2 chance . one with you if she liked you as much as u do. and one wit ur friend.
sorry if anything i typed might hurt you but i think it would hurt more, if she was the one 2 do it.
GOOD LUCK
ADVICE:
neva fight over a girl with ur best friend
2007-02-04 11:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Leila A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try finding out more about her. Ask her how her day is going. Find out what she is interested in so that she Will know that you are interested in her. Every girl likes compliments so maybe you should compliment her on her appearance and her level of intelligence.
2007-02-04 11:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out her interests some how and and pretend your in to the same things she is. For example if she likes Green Day and ice ice skating ask her if she wants to go to their concert or askating ring.
2007-02-04 11:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games with you. I wouldnt bother with her if she is deciding between you adn your best friend.
But if it is still the choice you want to make (being with her) act like you are not interested in her. Always got my attention when I was a teenager.
2007-02-04 11:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by rybo510 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her gifts, care about her, and carry her books.
Maybe in V day, you could go to a school dance and both of you should have a good time.
Cook her a good meal or invite her to your house for dinner.
Maybe she will do the same for you too I think, if it works.
2007-02-04 11:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rdy2answer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol your 13, you can't be serious, because your too young to be going out. The girl likes you but she doesn't feel comfortable with you yet. So wait a bit longer.
2007-02-04 11:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋