Is there a way to teach your heart not to fall in love anymore? I am so hurt and so scared of falling in love again....
2007-02-04 03:40:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do that, all the nicer guys who look for a nicer girl like you will lose their chance and then both of you will be broken hearted
2007-02-04 03:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young for falling in love is sometimes romanticed and therefore the idea of falling in love can make you feel the same as if you are in love with that person.
Years later when you have found your true love you come to this realisation that everyone before this one was just part of your learning experience.
If you are tired of falling in love look at life and men more seriously and less with emotions, let that part take over on its own, in other words don't go looking for it it will find you, just enjoy the people that you meet, go to parties, have fun, just let your heart lead you, just because you go out on a date doesn't mean you have to have a second if you didn't feal the real thing or something attracting you back.
2007-02-04 11:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd have to change your whole life - never go out again! Which is absolutely NO fun!
I'd be tempted to be a bit cautious, protect yourself, but you don't want to be alone forever I'm sure.
I'm in no real position to hand out advice, but look after yourself and try to use your head as well as your heart, and you'll find the one. But don't build up barriers, they'll only hurt you.
Good luck
2007-02-04 11:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely a way to do that, but you will turn into a very cold hearted person. You want be able to view the opposite sex the same way again. Are you sure that you want to do that?
2007-02-04 11:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is no way sorry you just kinda have to controle it and what i do from getting in love all the way but controle it rather is to list things that you don't like about the person list reasons on why you think it will never work out and to keep busy
2007-02-04 11:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isn't you just have to trust someone special and love him with all your might. Trust in Grassy is never wrong.
2007-02-05 09:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say look before you leap...look into a guy before you date him it maybe somethings that turn you off like a light switch
2007-02-04 11:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. unless you want to be really unhappy.
2007-02-04 11:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by caleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋