Why Islamic Scholar are really afraid and ashamed when discussing the topic of Aishyah marriage to Muhammad?

Question

To shirukh if you stated that 9 year old girl are ready to become a mother than why many young mother die even there are 13 years old . How do you claim that a 8 year old girl is biologically ready to become a mother

Answer 1

No one is ashamed...
No one is scared...
That's just something you made up right now...
Aisha was 9 when she was married to Muhammed...
It was normal back then to treat marriage as a unifying ceremony amongst tribes...
The Virgin Mary was very young as well when she married Joseph...
Pedophilia is a phenomenon that was created within the last 200 years or so...
2000 years ago there were no laws against this...

Answer 2

I am not sure if they are afraid, or even ashamed. It is definitely a touchy subject. We all are quite aware that despite the times that Muhammed was living in, a six year old child is not of the age to marry. Anyone who justifies that a six year old was more capable of marriage is insane. If Muhammad had devine intervention he should have been pure of heart. Muhammad should have been able to see that marriage to a six year old child is not at all intelligible, it is not at all moral despite the year, despite the customs, despite anything...

Rationalizations will not do. This is something every Muslim should look at reasonably.. The times may have changed, but a man of God should have been more capable of understanding a child from a woman.

Answer 3

Are they afraid and ashamed? Or do they just not care about women? Islam doesn't care about the heart of women, because a woman was made to be the queen of One man's heart, just like that man should be the king of that One woman's heart. Men are selfish that's why they have more than one wife, men are rebellious against God. If they are afraid, it's probaly because deep down inside they know there wrong.

Answer 4

I disagree, you're just fishing for bad things to say. I read a biography of Muhammad written by Muslims and it comes out and says that. Marriages were often social or political arrangements and didn't always include sex. There is no evidence that Muhammad had sex with any of his wifes except Khadija--she's the only one who had his children.

Answer 5

Prophet Muhammad himself from age 24 to 50 was married to only one woman, Khadija can this man think of what the non muslims think about him now no one of the arab disbelievers blamed the final prophet for this marrige u know why because it was not strange at this time to marry the women 20 or 30 years younger than the man secondely all over the world the people were growing up more than our time now so the women in 9 or 14 (most writers said she was about 14 )at that time like 25 years old now finaly he married that young girl because she was very fast in learning so she can teach the world about his life after his death and that what happend she told us about his great life in detalis Aeisha, became renowned as a scholar and one of the greatest sources of Hadith literature.


All his wives – except Al Sayeda Aisha – were either widows or divorced , and most of them were elderly women, he could have chosen beautiful girls if he wanted. Any man would profer a birgin to a widow or a divorcee. His marriage to widows and divorcees and to elderly in particular shows that the prophet was not after sexual pleasure as said by his adversaries.

Answer 6

No one is ashamed. To be ashamed is an anti-Islamic myth.
What is the problem of our Prophet (PBUH) marrying a pubescent girl? Even though she was only 9?

Yes! Granted that most European girls reach puberty at 10-14 years, but in Arabia, a girl may reach puberty at 9. African and Indian girls may reach puberty at 8...or even before that.

Remember that puberty is a new phase of life. When a boy/girl reaches puberty, he/she becomes capable of reproducing. For a girl, menstrual blood comes after the "home" for an embryo was destroyed because there was no embryo inside the womb. Thus a pubescent girl could give birth and her womb could carry children.

Psychologically, Professor Alfred Adler described the reaching of puberty as the phase in which a person changes from being a child to a grown-up, because he is mentally able to make logical deducing.

You see: God has created us with great wisdom: We cannot be parents until we are wise and responsible.

Today's new scientific terminology of a 9 year old pubescent girl being a child is nonesense. How can someone be a child if he is both physically and mentally capable of being a parent??

Even in Europe and the rest of the world, people usually married once they reached puberty...it is very healthy and logical. Why do you need to wait many years after reaching puberty in order to marry (according to modern laws)? Wouldn't that be a waste of health and a waste of time?

Today, many students can't study nor concentrate in their lives because they're thinking about sex and they can't get it! Why not enable them to be legally married and enjoy the most active years of their sexuallity? Wouldn't that be better than trapping your desires...or even being committted in the boyfriend/girlfirend sinful illegitimate relationships?

People today love to do the wrong just because they are used to it...also they hate to do the right thing because they're not used to it.

People who call our great prophet (PBUH) a paedophile are ignorant; both in physiology and in psychology. He was the straightest of all men and the best well-adjusted person God has ever created. PEACE BE UPON THEE O GREAT PROPHET.

Answer 7

Because Muhammed has been elevated to 'sainthood ' in the eyes of Muslims & for them to accept that he was a dirty rotten sinner like the rest of us & not the mighty prophet he is portrayed as would destroy the faith of the masses overnight .

Answer 8

First of all get your facts straight, she was 6 yr old when he married...

http://www.faithfreedom.org/Articles/sina/ayesha.htm

They are ashamed and are brainwashed they know that it was wrong but they make themselves beleive that he did her a kindness. The sick Bastard should have adopted her!

He had no problem adopting Zayed and aftarwards when he got older marrying his wife Zaynab

Answer 9

there is nothing to prove that Aisha was 9. real Muslims only follow mind and Koran in religious issues. the lie is unreasonable and unmentioned in Koran.
Arabs didn't care much about birthdays, my parents don't know there birthdays! no one know for sure when Mohamed was born! how about Aisha!!
the sick animals are bukhari and Muslim, not Mohamed, and hanbalist sunnies who follow the Turkish liars. non of prophet Mohamed's companions was Turk, and they know nothing about him. they lived 150 years after the prophet death. when Turkish generals came to power in Abbasid time, they wanted religious writings to justify their sick minds. they even invented hadith that no one should harm Turks! Mohamed probably never heard of them. with all respect to the good Turkish individuals.
Koran made the first feminist writing in history when god said that male believers and female believers male worshipers and female worshipers...etc don't mix Islam with filthy Muslim sunnies and shia. Islam is pure, many Muslims are filthy.

Answer 10

islamic shcolars were never afraid nor ashamed to discuss the topic.due to the hot weather in mecca,by the time girls were 9 they had reached their puberty so its not a crime or anything.plus,you dont hear any of the prophet's(pbuh) enemies at the time call him a child molester because it was accepted socially,legally,and culturally to marry at a young age.also another of the prophet's(pbuh)wives who married him at the age of 17 was already married 2 times before,which proves my point.lastly,while molested children suffer the consequences of their molestation for their whole livees lady aisha lives to narrate the best love story between her and the prohet(pbuh).you can check my words from history books.also i advise you to go to ageofconsent.com for further information