so this guy I just started seeing came over last night. really nice guy, we watched a movie and talked for hours. We made things official and ... you know, decided that we're a couple.
We lied in bed, making out for hours and then we had sex. He finished kinda quickly and I said that I didn't have anymore condoms. he said he had more in his car, so he got dressed to go get them. I live in an apartment and my buzzer isn't working, so I handed him the spare set of keys so he could get back in the building.
HE NEVER CAME BACK!!
At first I was freaked out because he had my keys, but then this morning I saw them lying on the floor by the door.
I haven't been able to reach him since, cell phone is turned off!
WHAT DO YOU THINK THIS MEANS? AM I NEVER GOING TO HEAR FROM HIM AGAIN? DID HE DROP KEYS BY ACCIDENT AND CELL PHONE DIED AND FIGURED HE WAS LOCKED OUT, SO JUST WENT HOME?
2007-02-04 02:53:32 · 28 answers · asked by who-wants-to-know 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm really sorry to tell you, this guy was a total snake and left you with a mean bite. What a pathetic loser and jerk he is to do such a cruel thing to you. Sorry to tell you, he dumped you, got what he wanted and left. Just be happy he's not around anymore, he's a total good for nothing horses butt. You didn't deserve that and he will get his just desserts one day. Just move on - and forget the good for absolutely nothing loser.
2007-02-04 03:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a good sign at all. Some people are just this way and I don't know why. This has happened to a good friend of mine and come to find out he already had a girlfriend and just wanted to have sex with my friend. Once he got it he vanished. Even if he did get locked out he would make an attempt to get in touch with you so you would not freak out. Sounds like he is just another heartless pig that gets what hes out for and leaves. Take it as a bad lesson learned and move on, life is to short to waste time with people like this. I am sorry it happened to you and I hope you never have to go through this again. Good luck to you
2007-02-04 03:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of crappy what he did to you. That wasnt right. Maybe he got freaked out or maybe he just used you. Sounds like that he doesnt want thomgs to continue for some reason or another.
Next time dont be so fast jumping in bed with someone. Wait a while and see if it is right for you before you do the deed again.
2007-02-04 03:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, it sounds like he got what he wanted and was done. I mean maybe he wanted to act like it was official so he could get in your pants, or if you had sex before, maybe something you said freaked him out or maybe, he has another girl and he had to get home or something. This stuff happens alot, but not sure what happened in the past with you guys so those are some guesses.
2007-02-04 02:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I definitely have condoms, yet in no way used them. He might have those only incase, you overlook your pill. Or he might desire to be utilising them for somebody else.ultimate thank you to be attentive to is time, if he ameliorations or in case you seize him then you would be attentive to. considering that the two considered one of you had intercourse its difficult to assert if hes cheating or not. in case you attempt valuable for some thing then youll be attentive to too. ultimate element to do is to permit him use those condoms till you hit upon out, in case you come to a determination to maintain this courting
2016-09-28 10:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted a wet hole to stick his tallywacker in - and you were it. All that stuff he said was a lie. He's not coming back until he gets hhorny again, then he will make a dumb excuse and do it again. Next time tell him you dont need condoms and want him to knock you up so you can get married. You will never see a man run faster.
2007-02-04 02:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well i think mayb he was threatened guys have their own lil space and if they feel too threatened then they run, and mayb he felt nervous or scared...or did you watch eastenders ages ago wen alfie had to search for a condom...mayb ur guy had too and mayb he lost his mobile and left ur keys at ur home....its quite a triky situation... dont get to creepy by always trying to contact him, mayb he will contact u
2007-02-04 02:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by lil_pwrincesss_kim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry but I read your question and seen the picture so clearly. This is really a funny situation to be in. I sure would like to know what happened also ?
I think he just fed you a line and skipped out on you. I guess the moral of this story would be to keep a larger supply of condoms in your place, least you run out again.
This is just to funny. I'm sorry, what a scenario.~~~Jill
2007-02-04 03:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You said he finished kind of quickly, maybe he was really embrassed and ran away because he couldn't face you?
Or he could have just used you like everyone else is saying. Either way give him time and don't build your hopes up about him.
2007-02-04 03:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by danyol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as much as it sucks, don't call him. don't leave messages, if you start bugging him he will just move away. Give it a week, as much as it sucks this is how it goes, he's done so he feels the ball is on his side, if you don't call him he'll start to wonder what happened? was I not good? didn't she like me? and then he'll be calling. For now what he's doing is exactly the same to you, he left and now you are wondering. Let him wonder, and if he doesn't call, he's not the last man on earth, you will survive sister!
2007-02-04 03:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋