do younger women find men in thier 40's hot?

Question

and if yes why and where you live lol

Answer 1

I am 35 now and married, when i was younger i found older men more appealiing as they are not so childish and more experienced than the younger ones.

Answer 2

I am in my second marriage for 26+ years and my husband is a couple of years younger than I am. My first marriage lasted 7 1/2 years and he was six years older. Most men like to think they are in control. While in college, I saw many male non-traditional students go after the cute young ones. A couple of weeks later, I would hear about how immature and lacking in knowledge these girls were, what's with the music they listen to, etc. and that the sex did not make up for those traits. They would talk to me and I would tell them to look at the female non-traditional students and find someone closer to their age. I am now 55. Most guess me to be about 40-45. I am comfortable in my being - searching out knowledge and exploring beliefs - not worrying about others approval. I also work on not judging others. That can be difficult especially when dealing with my own children LOL. I think the best we can do is be a good friend to others, whether male or female. I think I am close to being considered a "crone" according to pagan beliefs. I am asked for advice by all ages, and told that I am a strong woman. I would not want to be a young woman these days.

Answer 3

YES! My husband calls it the "grandpa complex" - he's 48 and I'm 25. I think it's all about finding someone who fits what you're looking for and a lot of younger women find the stability, security and maturity in older men extremely attractive. Besides, they say it's good to get a younger puppy to keep your older dog young and lively, right?? :)

Answer 4

In my experience ...most younger women think anything over 30 is "old", so no. But they are the ones that don't get it. They miss out on the benefit of an experienced older man that can give them orgasms beyond anything they can dream of with younger guys. Yes they may have more enthusiasm, and energy..but that's it. Not much experience,or knowledge in how to please a woman. Also we're already trained ladies, we know how to treat a woman like a woman with respect and courtesy. Younger guys always want to show you how "bad" they are or how manly/toughthey are. You won't find many if any, that are romantic, affectionate, passionate and attentive lovers.

Answer 5

I gotta say this is an interesting question.

I myself Yes, as so do the females in my family do. We just like older man- difference in age is about 10- years apart.

My mother was just 18 yrs old when she met my step dad who was 52 yrs old. They lasted 20 years of marriage. He pasted away 2002. Right now my mother is 43 yrs' old and she's with a boyfriend who's 67 yrs old.

My sister got married when she was 16 years old. My brother in law was 30 something. She's now. 22 and brother in law is 44. They have three beautiful kids together.

I'm 24 myself and fiance is 35 years old. We met online have one child together.

So.....Yes there's a lot females that love being with older man. They more in some topics. More mature. Unlike today's males...

Of course you got those females that think it's disgusting,...but those don't know how good it is to have an older male as a partner.

Best Of luck

Answer 6

Yes! I have had relationships with younger women and they all claimed to have enjoyed it. We are all still friends even though some have gone on and get married.
I am not too sure why but I can give u some instances of what they say.To answer in in further details , I am here at :[e-mail].
I will be happy to go into further details.

Answer 7

Yes I do. I was in my 20's when I started dating men in their 40's. I always like them older cause they are done going out with their buddy's and partying unlike guys that were aroung my age in their 20's. Plus older men are more stable in and settled down with their career. Good luck you will find someone someday. I am now happily taken.

Answer 8

Absolutely! I believe that almost every woman in the free world has had the hots for at least one older man. My friends and I have even made lists of older men who to whom we are attracted.

There is something very sensual in a man who is experienced in life, who can take control and take care of a woman. Older men also tend to know better what a woman needs in bed.

Answer 9

not sure,, but i can tell u when i was younger, i had an older man,,and it was all about the sex..he knew what he was doing and that was hot..otherwise the gray, pointy chest hairs are a big turn off, also the swollen nipples and saggy ***...but the oral sex was good....and the life experiences that go w/being older...the young guys dont quite have it yet...

Answer 10

do younger men find women in their 40s hot???