We have been in each others lifes for two and a half years. I live in Missouri and he lives of the East Coast. We have gone through so much together. I trust him more than anyone. I can tell him anything and know that he will not judge me. Most recently I was told that I was the reason he and his girlfriend broke-up. He is 11 years older than me. To me age does not matter, but he fears that if we were together I will loose my youth. He has always told me what a great mother I would be. And does not like to hear about people I am dating. He especially hates telling me about his personel life. We have talked about me moving in the past to be with him, but he later told me he did not want to have the responsibility on his shoulders of me moving there if we did not work out. What is your unbiased oppinion on this? I just want some outside perspective.
2007-02-04 02:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by hougie21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just needs to learn to deal with it.
Why would he say that he's afraid that you will lose your youth?
Saying that throws up a red flag. It sounds like the only reason he likes you is because your younger then him. Only a child molester would say something like that
2007-02-04 02:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wonder why he doesn't want for you to move in with him, because any red blooded American male would. But maybe he has a secret that he doesn't want you to knnow. Maybe he's married? Or he and his gf ahven't broken up he's just telling you that. But it's strange for a guy who is only 11 years older than you doesn't want to move in together with you, seems strange to me. But there's a reason and you need to look into it. Why not go on a surprise visit and see how he reacts and see what happens.
2007-02-04 10:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age really doesn't matter, but it sounds like he is thinking of you as more of a daughter than anything else. If it's meant to work give it a while and see what happens. As for his personal life he may have things that you really don't want to know about.
2007-02-04 10:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by oldokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im married to a guy 17 yrs older and we been together 14 years-so it can work out but im like u age is just a number not the person. also if he is saying no to move now-id move on hon-cause i think maybe he has.
2007-02-04 10:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by kbird 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd find someone else if I were you, He does'nt sound serious. And the fact that you did'nt tell us your age is proof you are too young for him. I'd break it off with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He cheated on his girlfriend with you, did'nt he ? You'd be next. Dump the loser !
2007-02-04 10:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Vinegar Taster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The answer is simple..a couple of possibilities. 1. He is married and doesn't want to lose his friendship with you, and this has alot of variables with it.
2. Since you never mentioned seeing a pic of him, maybe you have maybe it's not of him.
2007-02-04 11:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by theboywhocanfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋