Im 18 years old and a friend from high school and I started talking last week she broke up with her boyfriend 2-3 weeks ago we went bowling friday night and had a lot of fun but she hasnt returned any of my text messages and she told me we were gonna hang out at her house monday night should i ask her out or is it to early.
2007-02-04 02:08:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never to early for this.You better do it quick because life it's short.You never know what it will happen next but you'll feel good for having the guts to do it.So...good luck! ;)
2007-02-04 02:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by CrisTynutza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was her old boyfriend a long term partner? If so, then definately do not ask her out, yet. Also, stop texting her so much. You will give her the idea that you "need" her. She will have all the power (no woman finds that sexy). You should go to her house on Monday though. However, try not and spend too much time with her and give her different levels of attention. Make her want YOU. So, maybe before you text her again, wait till she texts you first. Also try the cocky and funny approach...for some reason girls love it.
2007-02-04 10:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember the 3 day rule: do not contact your date for 3 days after your date. If you contact your date, earlier than 3 days, you might come across as being pushy. It is possible that she did not get your text messages or she might be getting back with her old boyfriend. Try waiting until Monday afternoon and give her a call about getting together Monday night. If she still does not return your call, you got your answer..........she is not interested. Good luck.
2007-02-04 10:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tread cautiously. This gf is on the rebound. Rebounders, need time to sever the emotional bond created within the prior relationship. Not responding to your text messages, may be an indication and her way of saying: she needes space to "heal," before I'm ready for male companionship or romance. Pressuring her will only hurt you the most and possibly destroy any chance of dating. I would try to keep the door open and remain her "friend," on friendly terms (as long as she agrees), but allow her to take the lead. This way when she's ready to move on to something more serious, leaving her past where it belongs, you'll be the first to know and exactly where you stand with her.
Good Luck!
2007-02-04 10:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're young, it's almost impossible to resist trying to contact a girl who you might be intimate with. You've got to hold on strong my brother. I'm almost 40 and if there's one thing I know about women: it's that they are more attracted to guys who skillfully keep their distance from them. Don't smother her. Wait to see what happens on Monday, and bring a romantic gift with you. If things start to turn romantic, you can give her the gift, and you might not have to say anything after all. Let the gift do the talking. Isn't Valentine's day coming up? How perfect is that??
If things don't get romantic, you don't have to give her the gift!
2007-02-04 10:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u made plans for monday t sounds like you're already going out- obvi not bf gf but youre going on a date at least. see how it goes, don't try and turn it into something, let the relationship take its course.
2007-02-04 10:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by toburn41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off with the texting or you'll freak her out and loose her.
Rule of thumb:
To keep them keen
treat them mean
2007-02-04 10:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋