I really don't know what to do anymore. I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend but I don't know if it would be a good idea to tell him. When we broke up, we both thought it wasn't working out anymore. I don't know if we just needed a break?? I told him yesterday that I needed to talk to him, so he called me .. but I just couldn't tell him on the phone. This has been bothering me for a long time and I can't stop thinking about him. Maybe it is just part of the process? I know that he's not over it either. This is driving me crazy ...
2007-02-04 02:02:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's with someone else, then don't. but if he's still single, then tell him. you have nothing to lose by trying, and it may work out this time.
2007-02-04 02:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Generally speaking, when you break up, it is for a reason(s). I have found that getting back together with an ex, only exposes those reasons again. When we break up, we tend to remember the good things, and not the crappy things of our relationship. I think that is human nature.
Sure it is OK to tell him. Why the hell would you think it is not? It is not now, nor will it ever be if you you can not talk to him about things. I guess like most women, you think he should just 'know' how you are feeling right now, without you telling him and adjust accordingly.
Yes, it is part of breaking up a relationship to still have feelings and miss that person, until you are over it and start dating again or really move on.
But if you want to pursue it, stop being such a p*ssy, and do it, try it out on a limited basis, remember why you wanted out before, and closely look at those thing, if they have not changed, no reason to get in too deep.
2007-02-04 02:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
MAYBE YOU DID JUST NEED THE BREAK, IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE STILL FRIENDLY TOWARDS EACH OTHER. TELL HIM FACE TO FACE BUT MAKE SURE YOU BOTH UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION, MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM THAT THIS WOULD JUST BE A SECOND TRY,IF EITHER OF YOU DON'T ENJOY EACH OTHERS COMPANY AFTER A WHILE LIKE LAST TIME IT WILL BE A MUTUAL BREAK. AT LEAST YOU CAN GET IT OFF YOUR MIND AND IF HE IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING YOU COULD GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY.
2007-02-04 02:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by SWEET SARAH 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call Him if you know he is not over it...Call him now...make a coffee date or whatever it is you guys used to do....and Talk it over maybe you both will find that there are things in the relationship that is worth giving it another try...Get out of this computer and call him now...com'on time is a wasting go go go!
Good luck!
2007-02-04 02:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by karaya6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its part of the process, try to find out from friends how he's doing
ask yourself y did we brake up
on a break, tht could be a good thing make you think is he the one, again try to find out what he is going thru at this time, if he does care then his not teh one
but if he's hurting like you are, then talk to him
2007-02-04 02:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's part of the process of breaking-up. You need time away from him (with NO contact) to get over all your feelings for him.
I would suggest you let sleeping dogs lie and leave him alone, for your and his sake. Odds are he would blow you off if he broke-up with you (or it was mutual).
2007-02-04 02:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things are best done in person rather than on the phone. You would be better of spending time with him first before jumping into anything new.
2007-02-04 02:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both have got a .. second chance.. to get it right !!...go for it... If you dont ask...its an automatic..NO...ask, and you have a ... 50/50 chance of a...YES...I wish only the best for both of you........enjoy.
2007-02-04 02:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend. She knows it and is cool with it.
2007-02-04 02:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kronsteen of Spectre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...what is there to loose?
2007-02-04 02:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by karen i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋