Ok here resentley I met up with my ex. whom I have know for about 3 years.People are always judging our age diffrence and how we met at church..I really like him and he's the sweetest person ever,I care alot about him...and most people say he is just with you for sex but he isnt,We havent even talked about it..But his parents just dont see eye to eye...Should I wait till I graduate to talk to him or just go ahead?
2007-02-04 02:00:17 · 20 answers · asked by Casandra K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there is any problem with hanging out with a guy who's 5 years older than you.. as long as it doesn't involve sexual encounters. becuase those really have BAD consequences in your age.. but For God's sake.. ask them who they want you to date... a 14 years old boy?? who probably still uses diapers? Go ahead.. but just make sure you're safe. till you're 18.. then you WILL be safe. lol
2007-02-04 02:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 and 19 is a big gap in age..... It might not be about the sex right now, but it would be soon enough. Like when you are 15 and he is 20. That could only lead to trouble - and jail for him.... Your best bet is too wait a few years before being in any kind of relationship with him.... Good luck.
2007-02-04 10:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a girl your age to be attracted to someone older. However, I don't think it is normal that he is attracted to a girl your age. Especially, since he met you when you were 11 and he was 16. His parents are correct in questioning this behavior. In our state a 19 yr old with a 14 yr old is a crime, and he would be prosecuted for this if it was brought to the laws attention. I would remain friends with him, but I wouldn't take it any further...wait till you are older, a lot of things change in just a few years.
2007-02-04 10:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead with what? This is kind of confusing. I wouldn't have sex with him if thats what you mean. Because of the age difference if you expect this to work both of your parents need to agree. Have you ever heard the phrase 15'll get ya 20.
So you see. You have to be very careful in this situation. Not to mention when you do go places with him I would make them public places.
2007-02-04 10:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few years.
You are (whether you know it or not) stil growing a lot. He is pretty much done with all that. You are changing, he is not.
If, when you are 17 or 18, you still feel interested in him (he'll be 22 or 23), then go for it.
Right now, it would be a mistake.
2007-02-04 10:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Grendle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
totally unfair, the under age have sex with a over 18 year guy , he goes to prison, she keep doing it, not right at all, it must be prison time for both of you, kid, you should be playing with barbie dolls and stay in school, do not wreck your and somebody else's life,....exercise, play sports, stay busy , be what you are, a kid, you have no idea how many people would like to be a kid again,...you need professional counseling
2007-02-04 10:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by hector596 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents let you date at 14?? It's illegal for him to be your boyfriend, he could go to jail if he touches you, and the charges would stay on his criminal record for the rest of his life. That would make it very hard for him to get good jobs, and would make it impossible for him to get a job with kids. If you care about him, leave him alone until you are old enough to make responsible decisions.
2007-02-04 10:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till your a bit older, i went out with a 19 yeah old when i was 14 or 15, and it was weird, i didnt like hanging out with him and his friends cuz it made me feel like a baby... and my friends didnt like hanging out with him.... but age cant really tell your heart not to love someone... when your old, i dont think age matters, if your in love, and your both happy, then good, you only have one life, so spend it with the one who makes you happy. Good Luck! =]
2007-02-04 10:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to sound negative but those relationships hardly work out and usually leave you sad and depressed because you will give him your all. Sometimes its good to stay within your age range because there is a better chance of it lasting longer.
2007-02-04 10:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Memphis10Grizz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If yall are truly serious about each other go for it...it says sex is illegal between that so don't make it keep it on the down low
2007-02-04 10:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by amber j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋