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so i am a girl, then about 6 months ago my mates got me together with this guy who i realy didnt love. but he 'Loved' me. well i hung around with him for a while, but felt like a dork because i realy had no emotions for him what-so-ever.
eventually i let him go, and i think he has moved on to another girl, so i should be happy, because he was a bit OTT about me, for some reason.
but recently i cant stop thinking about him! but im sure i dont love him! also i havent a chance in hell with him again and i realy dont want him... i dont want him because i find him boring an arrogant. hes just not for me - so why cant i get him out of my head?
any ideas? am i just a stupid girl?
xxx
2007-02-04 01:55:24 · 17 answers · asked by sweetmango 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU IN LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 01:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by RICKY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi sweety. I am in the same situation as you. You are not stupid. Maybe you did liked him in the beginning but it just faded away as yall was going out. The only thing I can say is don't put your self down or anything if you don't love him then don't worry about anything. You can't stop thinking about him because he had loved you.
2007-02-04 02:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lil CC 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a hard one to answer, but are you SURE you dont love him? Usually when you cant stop thinking of someone that means you eaither like or love them, or you cant figure out how you feel about him, just give it time.
2007-02-04 02:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by *Madison 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you were flattered that this guy like you so much. I think that you are shocked that he has moved on. I think its the old cliche you don't want him but you don't want anyone else to have him either. I think if you were with another guy you wouldn't give him a second thought.
2007-02-04 02:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He was paying you all this attention and suddenly it has just stopped so it is normal to be feeling strange now..because he is not giving you all the attention.
2007-02-08 00:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not stupid.
I do this a lot. I think about people I don't care about at all. I think about kissing them, talking to them, etc. I used to think I was mental! Well.
I think that you're thinking about him because you're single and he had a crush on you. The best way to take him out of your mind would be to start crushing on someone yourself.
2007-02-04 01:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
allot of people tend to want things they cant have..even tho you had him for a while, now that he is with someone else you wonder what if?? maybe he is the perfect gentleman, and you r not attracted to guys like that, but you know you should be..anyhow i wish you could get him back for a spell, and you would see you wouldn't want him again...once you have you don't want...get it!!
2007-02-04 02:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by jamey m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably can't stop thinking about him is because he showed you attention and now that you have no one in your life doing that you think about him as soon as you find someone else you will get over him trust me.
2007-02-04 01:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No obviously you must still care for him. Your curiosity of what it would be like to be with him is growing. Despite what you say of your dislike for him, somewhere there is a part of you that disagrees.
2007-02-04 01:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's one of those crazy things, you always want what you can't have, despite knowing that it's not good for you and not really what you want at all. Don't worry you will get over it soon.
2007-02-04 02:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Yaz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just give him a chance.You might find out that you were missing out on a good thing?
2007-02-04 02:00:36 · answer #11 · answered by Linzey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋