WHAT do i do......should i forgive him?
hes fine now and hes being genuine and i think hes realised his mistake but i just cant let go of the fact that for 3 months he was being a ******** towards me [ on and off] and he admitted that becasue he had only recently started work and he became friends with all of them and they all went out sunday nights and he got into the habit of not seeing me and spending more time with his mates which included girls and guys....he swore to me that he didnt fancy anyone it was purely that because he had spent literally 2 years with only me and he didnt have a job now that hes got a job he liked spending time with mates too and it became a habit and thats why he started acting rudely to me at time and being bascially a dikhead with his behaviour
and well hes realised now becasue i left him 3 weeks ago and hes been crying and in a state and has said sorry and that he will never do it again and that hes back to normal with me.....
what shall i do...ive been thru enough.....any advice...xx
2007-02-04 01:54:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont forgive others than God will not forgive you of yours and you wont see the light when you die
2007-02-04 01:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the key words are "i've been thru enough". Guys tend to want what they don't have anymore. If you fall back into the cycle he will treat you like sht again somewhere down the road because he got away with it once. Teach him a life lesson and get away from him.
2007-02-04 10:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to spend the rest of your life being second best to someone like this? I know it is easy for anyone to say "dump him," but really; why would you want someone to treat you like this when you were good to him when he was unemployed?
Let him "never do it again" to someone else. Stick to your guns and keep an eye out for someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Best of luck!
2007-02-04 10:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by CakeOrDeath? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow you heart, what do you want
give him another chance, tell him he can go out with his mates as long as you can tag along see what kind of man he is with his mates that will help you determine if you want to invest more time with this one
if not give him the bout
2007-02-04 10:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men don't cry. Just stay single for a while and see which you prefer, single or relationship. There's no rush, I don't think cry boy is going anywhere.
2007-02-04 09:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all he did was spend too much time with his friends.
If he's a genuine guy, you should take him back.
If you think he's devious and don't really trust him, find someone new.
2007-02-04 09:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's been through enough too - give him a break but to be honest, he doesn't sound unreasonable at all to me. You, however, sound a bit insecure about your relationship.
Good luck with this - jealousy is a destructive creature.
2007-02-04 09:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two do not seem to benefit from being with each other. Find someone who thrives in your presence and someone who strives to make you happy.
2007-02-04 09:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya, just make ure he doesn't do again if he does so it again just leave him for good and find someone who will treat you with respect
2007-02-04 09:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kayleen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should forgive him. as he has all ready apologised and you should atleast give one chance if he betrays you further just drop him.All The Best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 10:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by nikita r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋