When hes friend's come in to the pic. he has noting to do with me. Even he friend's treat me beter when their with us. what should I do?
2007-02-04 00:31:50 · 20 answers · asked by Baby girl 101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him, when you are alone, if he likes you b/c of the way he acts
2007-02-04 00:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by superman01706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try not to be alone with him. Do you look really hot? If not, then he wants to have something with you without his friends knowing. He may think you are cheap and easy to get down with. If you believe his crap on the side, he will push you to the side after the act. Don't fall for his alone words. Tell him you are concerned about the way he treats you around his friends. His response may be that he doesn't, but don't believe him. Stay far from him as you can and find another man who appreciates and loves you for who you really are inside.
2007-02-04 08:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid I have to be brutally honest with you on this one sweetheart. This boy is either ashamed of you, or showing off in front of his friends as if he can treat you any way he wants and can still have you. Doesn't sound like someone worth being with if you ask me. Sorry but you need to find a guy that's not ashamed to be around you, or treat you the way you deserve to be treated no matter who's around. Best of luck..
2007-02-04 08:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does like you but isn't ready to announce it to all his friends. WHY? Who knows. Guys are like that sometimes. Girls too. For some reason he is either ashamed or just that his friends are idiots and will rib him about having a girlfriend and he doesn't want that. Guys like to maintain an "image" so to speak with other guys and will act differently when they are around. Watch the musical GREASE. It is great and in it the guy does the exact same thing. UNTIL he wises up and realises he may lose her.
2007-02-04 08:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's one of 2 things-either he's trying 2 hold up the macho male image in front of his friends, or he really likes u but don't want 2 show it in front of neone or his friends. which i don't no the whole story but i would probably guess that he likes u and just don't no how 2 show it around his friends because he has 2 hold up that male macho image that most guys go thru!! lol - next time ur alone with him just ask him y he does that cause it bothers u a lil he'll come around, lifes too short these days 2 wait 4 nething never know wat can happpen as they say--"NO GUTS NO GLORY" try it and see i bet it'll all work out good! good luck
2007-02-04 08:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by jods1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is shy when his friends are around or that he never told them that you were his girlfriend! It would be good to confront him when you are alone with him and talk about this... Perhaps he is not serious with you and treats you like anyone else. Sounds like he has no intention of treating you any special than one of the boys so even if he ignores you, he won't feel bad about it....You need to talk to him about this...
2007-02-04 08:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can't look like ******* to their friends. They would be shuned and ridiculed mercilessly. This has always been......and I'm afraid will always be. The reason his friends seem kinder is because your not their gf. If you know any of his friends gf's ask them, and see if they don't feel the same. Just like women can't be seen with certain people, and don't tell me your not like that, everyone is, men can't seem pussy whipped in front of their friends. I'm not saying it's right or wrong...(well, now at my age I realize it's wrong, but much more accepted) that's just how it is. I'm just answering your question, not judging. I hope this helps you understand things better.
2007-02-04 08:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! My guy (been dating almost 3 months now) had me meet his friends, and on the first time I was meeting them, even if they were talking to him, he'd glance over and look into my eyes, tickle me, and was even kissing me in front of them (and that was less than one month into the relationship.)
2007-02-04 08:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cheyenne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Kid!! He ain't in love with you. He wants something that he thinks he's gonna get. Walk away, and only be with YOUR FRIENDS! Friends are proud of all of their Friends. This Clown ain't grown up yet! Good Luck!
2007-02-04 08:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER let a man disrespect you like that. Kick him to the curb...(if his friends treat you better, maybe one of THEM wants to date you...hmm)
2007-02-04 08:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋