was i born with learning disorders?

Question

i dont no every thing about learning disabilities,but i think i was born with them, i have some dislexeya,and a.d.d. and other learning disabilities, when i was in school i was called a retard by other kids it was a very tough time. i try and i try but my brain does not work like others i feel like i am at a disadvantage, i think people love it because they can tell when a person has learning disabilities and they no its just that much eazy for them to blow past them at work because lets face it some one with out learning disabilities can learn things faster, how do people really look at people like me, and what do they really know about learning disorders, i have been acused of being a pot head and druger, people say thats why you have those problems, people make fun of my spelling and are very cold about it,like i have no feelings, so like i said how do people veiw people with learning disabilities, and any one out there with learning disabilities what has been your experence ?

Answer 1

The world is a cruel place, and not everyone is understanding. I happen to be someone who is. I have not shared your personal experience, but I can empathasize with you.

You sound like you're really trying to overcome your disabilities and be successful. You might look into the Learning Disabilities Association of America. There are a lot of resources on their web site that could help you. Here's the link:

http://www.ldaamerica.org/

I think it's horrible that people have made fun of your spelling. I work in a technical field with people who are very good at math and science. Most of them can't spell though, and they've even asked me how to spell simple words before. There are tons of brilliant people who can't spell, so no one should make you feel bad because of a disability. Even though you have a hard time spelling, it doesn't make you stupid. You need to figure out what you're good at and pursue it so that you can be successful.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

My 2 sons were born almost deaf, and both have learning disabilities, they also have spina bifida. They did have a lot of trouble in school, mostly before high school with kids picking on them. The teachers didn't help either. They had sucker sticks with needles stuck in the ends thrown at them, yet they had to serve in school suspensions while the bad kids got away with it. They were never allowed to fight back. They do have troube finding and keeping jobs, and it just isn't fair at all. That is why they do have SSI for people, but getting on it is very hard if you only have learning disabilities. My younger son is with a girl who has learning disabilities, and they now have a son who is just over a year old. He shows no signs of it, and seems to be very smart so far. I love my sons just as much with their problems as though they were normal, to me they are. They are honest, hard working, and good at things a lot of normal people can't do. One is a mechanic, and can build or fix pc's. He taught himself. The other can do computer programs and has restored old photo's that are amazingly done. He could even be a comedian, he is so funny. When I broke my leg, he had me laughing so hard and so much, they didn't think it was broke. Just be yourself, and everything will work out sweetie. Don't let those other kids or people get to you. There are lots of people out there just like you.

Answer 3

i have dyslexia to and all my life i have been called thick, dumb, retarded, that i will never achieve anything i may as well give up on live now because i will never ever be anything other then thick all of this was said by my family
i had no confidence at all this time last year i couldn't even tell you the difference between the there's and things like that i couldn't spell small words like the word does and i got funny looks when i got excited because i could spell the word does.
i can spell a lot better now because i go college and i have help with my dyslexia i have qualifications now when last year i didn't have any
when i tell some people i'm dyslexic they look at me like i'm an alian but the real intelligent people are fine with it
you should find something that you are good at and concentrate on that just because you're not good at spelling it doesn't make you an idiot and i bet that you're good at something that a person who is good at spelling isn't
don't let what pathetic small minded people say get to you x

Answer 4

I work within an FE Learner support college and a assess, moniter and teach students who have a learning difficulty of somesort or another. The main thing is to think of the condition that you have as a quality and look at the areas that you are good at.
Most students that I work with are incredibly good at something, they just need the confidence and oportunity to seek what it is and work on it.

As with everyone in the whole world, confidence is the key, you need to start to thing positivly about yourself, there are loads of others who have the same difficulites/experiences that you have had (hopefully some will contact you via this question) and that there is opportunity and support available to you.

Through having difficulty whilst at school it is tough, and there is lots of stigma attached. Hopefully you willrecieve the support and be able to have the chance to work on your qualities. With a growth in confidence you will find ways and strategies that will help you deal with the difficulites that you have in a more rewarding and clear way.

Good luck and rememeber that everyone has problems; and that there are always ways to work with them, focas on people's qualities and abilites and eventually we will have a more fruitful, rich and tolerant society.

mrben

Answer 5

It is important to understand that a learning disorder or disability does not necessarily reflect an inferior intelligence, In fact a genius could have a learning disorder. This only means that you receive information and process it differently than the average person. The unfortunate part is that it can be difficult to find a way of learning that works for you. I have been working with my daughter for years with her disorder. As difficult as it may be you must try to ignore peoples ignorance.

Answer 6

EFA's (Essential Fatty Acids) are beneficial for people with dyslexia and other learning abilities. EFA's consist of Omega 3 and Omega 6 fatty acids which feed the brain. They can be found in many fish forms. They must be taken in certain proportions, the ideal ratio of omega-6:omega-3 being from 3:1 to 5:1.

Go see a doctor and discuss whether you should take an EFA supplement (some pills); also discuss the proportions. It is fully natural, so you have nothing to fear.

Answer 7

Well, your posting was a lot more literate and well-written than many postings on here, and your spelling wasn't too bad either.

Try to have more sentences and more paragraphs, and you will be an above-average poster.

People with learning disabilities have a tough time, and it's easy for other people not to make allowances for them, or to take the time to teach them. When other people are rude to you, you should always bear in mind that in overcoming your difficulties, you have probably achieved far more than they ever will.

Answer 8

Pretty much born that way same as with being a conservative. Some is learned behavior, but some is just they way you are. My parents were basically moderates as am I. My brother is staunch conservative. Rush, Sean and FOX news 24/7. His wife are daughters are fairly moderate. My daughters are a little more liberal than I am. Just who you are, except for those who think that they have to 'conform' to be a conservative or a liberal. IMO, those are just unnecessary labels. If you have to talk yourself into believing in a certain issue because that was what your chosen party said, than you are not being true to yourself.

Answer 9

Hi,my nephew has learning difficulties.He went to a school for special needs so he was not treated in the way you were.Kids are cruel.Your question is well presented.Try to learn not to let people affect you also you come accross has intelligent & a kind person.I wish you luck in the future im certain you will go far.Good Luck

Answer 10

hi, i have dyslexia in numbers, i am not to bad at the spelling though.
I know how you feel its horrible, when i was at high school i had a teacher that taught business studies, when he found out that i had dyslexia he treated me different compared to the other kids, ie talking very slow, making me stay behind after class to talk to me to see if i understood what it was, he just taught.
I guess he was just trying to be helpful, but really he was making me feel different compared to the other kids.
I am now 23 getting on with life, everyday i am learning myself how to count better, as you know yourself maths is in everyday tasks.
I know how difficult it can be it is so furstrating when you are showed how to do something and everyone else gets it first time, where as in me and you're case its not like that a tall, it takes us longer, and i know i feel like a right idiot cos everyone is looking at you as if you are stupid, well we are not just unique.
I am starting college in august to study nursing as i want to be a mental health nurse, i know it is going to be hard, but i am not going to be embarassed to use learning support if i need it.
All the best