If you found out a girl likes you but she's nearly 20 years younger?And also would you keep flirting if you didn't feel the same or would you avoid her?
2007-02-04 00:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there was a girl who was 20 years younger than me(but over the age of 18) who was in love with me I'd dump whoever I was with and be with her and treat her like a goddess.
2007-02-04 00:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asker,
Seeing as I have the guy mindset, I would love the fact a girl 20 years to my younger was flirting with me! It would make me feel young again and make me feel in the "Game" still. If I didnt feel the same I would simply tell her it should end. I would not avoid her or keep flirting because that wouldnt be the mature thing to do.
2007-02-04 08:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by pimpdaddy_mario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If married , you have no business. Stop flirting. be friends at best.
If single, there are pros and cons to both points of view. There is a certain desire for maturity, and one for youthfulness. It is probably most guys fantasy to have a younger girl. It depends on how much you have in common, whether anything real would come out of it. More likely to be more like a sexual romp and a temporary infatuation.
You are usually better off with someone closer to your age if you can find someone you are compatible with.
If you decide to pursue this, just don't expect too much, or expect long term. Recognize it for what it is.
2007-02-04 08:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lili, if you have a thing for a much older Man. It's not all wrong. Just make sure that you are old enough to know what real love is. If both a consenting Adults. It's okay, if your Hearts are in tune with eachother. Just understand this proven fact. Women, change as they get older. Once they reach the early 20's. They look at life, differetnly. You may wanna be with someone else. when you get to that age. God Love You. Live with Peace.
2007-02-04 08:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep flirting b/c its always nice to know that someone finds you attractive. But if i was married i would avoid you at all costs
2007-02-04 08:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by superman01706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were 18 yers old, and I was 38 I would be flattered. If she was 78 and I was 98 and had alot of money I would know she only wants my money after all how much longer have I got???
2007-02-04 08:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I didn't feel the same way I would politely tell her so. But I would not only not have a problem with it, I would probably enjoy it very much. And I would see to it she did too.
2007-02-04 11:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honest i take it as a honor,but i would need to let her know it could not go any any where but friend,,, me i never do any thing to hurt anothe one feelling,....me i see it as a phase,an she soon grow out of it
2007-02-04 08:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stick to some one of your age group because you will get taken advantage of
2007-02-04 08:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋