ok..there it goes..
i was on this website called friendster..long time back..i put up some really hot pictures of mine..hot as in photoshop edited!!!oh god..i edited everything..my figure,my nose..my lips my eyes..what was i thinking!!and therefore millions of guys contacted me..now i am friends with this reallllyyyy superduper hot dude..v both like each other..n hes reallly pressuring to me meet him..but how can i meet him!!he'l b so shocked..i'l b so ashamed...god//...help me..guys help me..
i cant tell him i edited stuff..i need help...my feelings for him are not much strong..but hez head over heels 4 me..helppppppppppppppppppppppp...
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advice
i am so screwed..
2007-02-03 22:59:03 · 18 answers · asked by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...that's a tough place to be in....my advice would be to meet him like you are, and if he says anything about you looking different, then i would tell him the truth....the point is if he really likes you it won't matter what you look like, he'll still like you anyways....and if he doesn't like you after he sees you, then he wasn't worth it b/c you need to find a guy who's going to love YOU, not you're body
2007-02-03 23:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by iluvdolphins4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol I'm sorry. But I know your not the first person that has done this. If you aren't really interested in him then let it be. Make up an excuse why you can't meet him. Tell him you met someone and are involved. Now you need to get rid of all the fake pics of yourself. Be honest and then when the next guy wants to meet you won't have this worry. I'm sure you've learned a good lesson. Be true to yourself and to others. I don't think he'd be to happy to know you edited your pics. It's not you...What if he doesn't look like his pics? How would you feel? Duped!!!!
2007-02-03 23:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i strongly suggest that you never meet up with anyone you met on the internet that thinks you're hot. have you ever heard about those teenage girls who meet who they think is a cute guy online and the guy seems obsessed with them so they give into the pressure to meet with them?? well incase you haven't let me tell you how these stories end, the girls get raped and sometimes killed. i am just saying that anyone can put on a fake internet identity and change their picture just like you did. you should be careful, my friend has a similar problem, went to meet the guy and almost got kidnapped by a forty something year old guy so if me telling you this prevents you from meeting him i'll be able to sleep easier!
2007-02-11 18:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by mableshmable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, why don't you write an email to him that whatever pictures you edited were not yours in reality. If you tell the truth he might even forgive you but if you go infront of him he'll be really heartbroken that he came from such a long distance and whatever he got was that which didn't even pass through his mind. Just tell him the truth yourself and not through anyone else othrwise he will feel really down-hearted. ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-03 23:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you need to do is just get a tight tight outfit to make you look how you want i mean you won't be buff but you will be kind of buff and your abs will stick out that's what you neeed too do :) The hair issue is simple tie your hair back and put a wig on it.. Good Luck
2016-05-24 02:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obivously the guy is in love with " photo you"so it might be difficult for him to accept the real you.My advice is to tell him the truth maybe he might want to see the real u in a photo too so don't be shy sent him the photo.GIRL be proud of u,of what GOD gave u.If h does like u than leane him than u'll know h is not worth it
2007-02-11 19:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by tatoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol mmm haha that totally sucks! best to just be honest with him yeah itll hurt him at first but maybe if u then show him an unedited pic he will see u in the same light! good luck!
2007-02-03 23:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him! There is no way you can get away with.
Just think of it the other way round...go on be brave and show yourself, he most probly will like you anyway, not all guys are shallow.
2007-02-03 23:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by mrgee32uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he didn't edit his picture? i would tell him the truth, how do you know that he won't like you without all the editing? he will be shallow if he just took you for your looks and not your personality
2007-02-03 23:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth. just about everyone lies on these sites,so i wouldn't worry about it.if you have drastically changed your appearance on the pics that he has seen he probably wont recognize you anyway, just turn up to check him out he may well have lied too.
2007-02-03 23:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋