Hey people xD I have a boyfriend who i totally adore. we have been together for two months. However, recently, he has seemed distant. Our sex life is begining to slip and usualy he jumps at the chance for a bit of 'action'. Also he has started to socially let me down. eg, cancles all our arrangments to go out. i have told him that i think hes being a bit distant yet he denies of such feeling. is our relationship over?
2007-02-03 22:44:44 · 22 answers · asked by princezz_saff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only 2 months,yes its over,seems hes done moved on,thats why he aint out in the public with u,then he gets busted 2x,walk away,keep fishing your catch is out there
2007-02-03 22:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by pooh 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Over? Girl - your relationship hasn't even started! Two months of "being together" is not a relationship - especially when you say you have a "sex life"... in 2 months? Honey, that's just an extended one-night-stand.
You're using the word ADORE... do you really know what that means? Maybe you are hung up on the "sex life"... and it is rare that such a short roll... oops, I mean short time is enough for anyone to really know what is really up. You say he seems distant? Cancelling out socially? Uhmm - maybe he is thinking about where in the world are you coming from? Possibly your feelings of "adoring" him are way to much for him to swallow.
Sweetie, if you two met and rocked each others world in 2 months... right on... but don't take it for more than what it seems to be - some seriously GOOD SEX... sounds like he may have been thinking that too - until you started "adoring" him and expecting him to play the social arm ornament role.
Give the boy some space... cool your jets... see what is really up... if you really care about him and don't just ADORE the way he makes you feel in the sack.
2007-02-03 23:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for this to die a natural death - perform euthanasia right now! For one thing, it will allow you to get back out there and start looking for someone else; another reason is it might just be the wake-up call that he needs to get him back to where you want him. I think you may have made yourself too available to him (your languague certainly suggests this eg 'adore') and you should stop doing that.
Call him now and end it. Tell him he doesn't make you happy any more and wish him well etc etc. Don't back down - if in a few weeks he still wants you back, then you may consider it.
2007-02-03 23:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but sometimes we give men the benefit of the doubt, as we do not want to believe they are messing us around. However, yuo have just mentioned the classic signs of someone who wants to end the relationship. Some men don't have the guts to say anything. It would be far better if he told you. The thing about cancelling arrangements is one I am very familiar with. It's horrible I know, but get shot of him.
2007-02-03 22:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men can be distant but not jumping at the chance says it all
i am a man and of course like all red blooded males we jump so maybe he is getting some elsewhere.
i hope that is not the case because the heart takes a long time to heal and the long term causes women not to like us guys
so i hope your relationship work out
my humble apologies
cjhemm
2007-02-07 16:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly seems like it is on its last legs. When he denies being distant, does he give you any reasons for his cancelling on you and the other behaviors. Lack of interest unfortunately is a big red flag.
2007-02-03 22:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is not over,be patient,you are saying that because the relationship is still new and you are still crazy about him,the reasons for cancelling does not mean that is over,do not pressurise him just give him time or else you will lose him.
2007-02-03 23:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by peedee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex and I broke up after 3 years.. we were happily in love for 2 years.. it was only in the last year that he seemed distant..
it's only been two months... it's too early for him to have lost enthusiasm in the relationship.. i think you deserve better my friend..
2007-02-03 22:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by terra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It was maybe just a fling to him and he doesnt want to fall out with you so that he has a f**k buddy for the future.
Cancel his arrangements and go out with your friends instead.
2007-02-03 23:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋