this is my problem: I am a good looking, charming, sexy guy, and, at my age, I already know well what kind of sensation I produce in a woman: attraction (that is a fact; so I dont pretend being modest here). I noticed that when I come accross an above average looking girl, she usually looks at me, keeps looking at me, starts flirting, even smiles at me. But when I come accross an average looking girl (or slighlty below average), she always prettends that I am an inferior being not even worth to give me the time of the day. I know about all the theory regarding insecurities, lack of self confidence, shyness, etc. But I think there is something else and I cannot completely grasp. Does anyone have a clue of why the differnt behavior among women out there? I am interested in the oipinion of both guys and women. I live in the U.S., so dont bring up any exotic cultural issues.
2007-02-03 22:31:42 · 15 answers · asked by wizard1968 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe they don't want to give you the satisfaction.
And sorry, not every single woman is going to find you attractive.
2007-02-03 22:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by His Angel 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, for one, you don't seem too modest. Heck, maybe all the attractive girls you run into are single and the dumpy ones are taken. I, for one, don't act any different towards good looking or dumpy guys. I'm happily married, so it doesn't really matter. But conceited guys have always been a turn off.
I've also heard the theory(among men, so draw your own conclusions) that the pretty girls are assumed to be taken, so ask them out anyway, since everybody assumes their taken, and they're actually single. Interesting enough.
My only other theory is maybe you're not as attractive as you think...or you've got a dull personality. Think about it.
2007-02-04 07:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a girl myself I think the reason is above average looking girls are confident enough to look at you in the eye and flirt with you but with those below average girls that you are talking about, in my opinion, they don't mean to make you feel inferior.. i think they feel inferior and not confident to even look at you because you are so good looking... they lack confidence and they are insecure and they are shy not you.. because when you're around, they know that they'll never get a good looking guy to look at them..
2007-02-04 07:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by terra 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Superficial attracts superficial. Perhaps girls with more substance can detect your massive ego. Perhaps you should try relying less on your looks and getting a personality. From your bizarre spelling, grammar and sentence structure, it's pretty clear that you obviously haven't put much work into your mind for a long time.
It's so clear from your grossly exaggerated belief in your attractiveness that you wouldn't even give a second chance to girls who are average looking but who are great people, and as such, they don't even bother talking to you.
By the way - your looks are going to go so you better start focusing on your personality or get a high paying job because noone's going to want to know you when your looks are gone.
By the way -I am very very attractive.
2007-02-04 06:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Snow White 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Because they wouldnt bother to waste time on you knowing that you wouldn't go for average girls like them.
I'm an average girl myself and that's how I usually act if I see some gorgeous, hot guy coming my way. I know that it's pointless to flirt with him if he thinks I'm insignificant and he's out of my league. Comprendez?
2007-02-04 06:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
these girls who keep staring at you just want to attract your attention. But the girls who don't even look at you because they think that you are a very nice person but you are too good for them. They feel small in front of you. some of them might even like you but she doesn't have the courage to even come infront of you.
2007-02-04 06:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by nikita r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think average looking women just see more than good looks , & wallet size when they look at a man.
We are more down to earth & really don't care about what is on the outside as much as what's on the inside.
I think we sense when a man feels too good for us , so we don't bother with that man.
2007-02-04 06:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think your perception my be incorrect. From your discussion above you seem full of yourself. Maybe the average girls see that your are a jerk and the pretty bimbos don't have a clue. Who knows, what is in the mind of a woman or a man.
2007-02-04 06:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 16⤊ 0⤋
may be they just think u wud'nt be interested any way so they dont care to waste time on u.im a very attractive girl myself.i think guys who r average lookin tend to act a certain way coz they feel intimitated around me......or they think im overconfident n snobbish coz im beautiful...or it cud be simply coz ur not their type
2007-02-04 07:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by nivya 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i dunno think it is mostly the insecure thing... maybe since you know your hot you come across as a dick, and n/o to really pretty plz coz i'm sure there is heaps out there that are nice but i think allot of them dun mind if you are a dick head... coz they may just be looking for someone 2 play with and enjoy getting a reaction form a hot guy... i dunno if i just confused u more... i confused me a bit 2 :D lol!!!
2007-02-04 06:38:31 · answer #10 · answered by rebecca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋