everytym i learn to love someone, i end up getting hurt ...
2007-02-03 22:30:19 · 22 answers · asked by lostinhislostlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
perhaps you have loved the wrong one .it is better to have love once in your life time , even if it hurt , then NEVER
i am sorry that you always end up hurting , it happens to alot of people , you are not alone , i am sure .... :-)
it will go away , the next time ? please learn the person in front of you .get to know him well ......do not be eager , stand up on your own and wait to receive love before you give yours ......
see if you are following a pattern in you relationships ....is it always the same kind of guys that your are attracted to ?
if this is the case ? you need to watch yourself and be careful .change your habits dating and the guys that you are attracted to .........
true love , is not about receiving .........and expecting .......in return , true love is shared of course .......that is the best , but not always ........
be glad you are able to love , it makes you a human being .....
when you have taken some time to really sort things out in your head ....and understand why you always end up loving and getting hurt .......you will know to make the right choice in your future ..........
somewhere , one loves you already ...........you just do not know it :-)
be happy ..........for you will have shared love .in time .......:-)
2007-02-11 07:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by HJW 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why Does Love Hurt
2016-10-02 23:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe we mistaken wanting to be in love with actually in love, Or we settle for what we know is the wrong person just to have someone in our life. I have always believed in "true love" and "forever" but after ending a 4 1/2 YEAR relationship that I knew all along was not real. I ask myself is " forever" and "true love" only in the movies. Maybe so. But, you have to have something as an example. And yes, if it hurts, you gave your love to the wrong person. Real love may hurt at times but it should never break your heart.
2007-02-11 19:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by jweggie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to start if your are capable to love someone to the point where it hurt when it end, there is nothing wrong with you, its a good quality so good for you.
next time you meet a guy you meet a guy and you fancy him, go and enjoy yourself, dont investe yourself so much, dont think about love in fact dont mentionne it, dont think about it, just have some fun so if the relation end it want hurt so much, i dont know how old you are but when it come to relationship try to remenber when you were 16 year old, you were looking for fun, do you know the say ( you have got to learn to walk before you learn how to run ) well a relationship is the same it got mature slowly dot jump any step, and at last if you want get in touch my email address is jeffregnardathotmail.com
2007-02-03 22:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by jefregnard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is very hard and love is a part of life. we all know that real friendship involvs fighting. if you are nice to each other all the time it isnt real friendship. life may hurt. love may hurt. but sometimes a bad thing can be good. if you leave them you may miss out on the good stuff.
2013-12-28 07:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Arielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya sister!
Because of the failed expectations that it would make you happy, for a time it did make you happy but when it has ended, it hurts all the more. That's how I see it or answer my question why it hurts.
P.S.
Reading kagome's and natalie's answers make me cry... buhuhu.
2007-02-03 22:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people usually love the wrong person or at the wrong time, or with the wrong motive.. people hurry into love that they get all these wrongs. but love really does hurt, it always will. that's you love because you can love another person despite anything else.. the courage of waiting for the right person, the right time, with the right motive.. should make every hurt caused by love "nothing".. compared to the happiness and joy it will bring..
2007-02-03 22:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by terra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not about finding the right person,
but creating a right relationship.
It's not about how much love you have in the beginning
but how much love you build till the end.
2007-02-11 21:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by ANTICIPATION 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you allow it to hurt you. This happens to me too, and it's probably because you care too much. You should toughen up & realize that most guys aren't there for a long-term relationship like you want them to be. Don't give one guy your all... cause when he's gone, there is none left. Save some of yourself for you.
2007-02-03 22:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by natalie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
unfortunately getting your heart broke is a part of life. But don't fear you will have that beautiful love that will not break your heart and when you find it you will appreciate it all the more because you will know how rare it is.
2007-02-11 13:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by dian f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋