yea ive asked this before... mayb im searching for an answer that isnt there but... shes 14, im 18 ... i thought she was a junior (and 16 or 17) but shes a freshman. shes got everything i like in a girl. yes its illegal. we both dig eachother... the only thing holding up is me.. i think. what would u do if u were me?
2007-02-03 19:24:57 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her parents wouldnt really be a problem... dads gone and mom is ... lets say just not around much.
2007-02-03 19:31:14 · update #1
and arron... r u a complete idiot?? did i say anything about marriage.. a job.. anything of that nature? no. ur really not very smart.
2007-02-03 19:32:38 · update #2
My husband and I were the same ages as you and your girl when we started dating and we've been married for 32 years so far. Everyone knows girls mature faster than guys and some even more than others so you have to judge if the two of you can make it or not. As far as the legality of it, I think you can date but you have to wait on sexual contact. I think one thing you could do is get to know her parents and see if they give their approval, if not I'd try to remain friends and put off anything serious until she's 16. Difficult I know. Good luck !!! And check on the legal aspects before you go too far.
2007-02-03 19:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive known tons of people dating with a big gap so it happens. its illegal but not really noticable unless the girl like goes to cops about it.
Is her being 14 going to interfere with the type of relationship you want? I mean shes only 14 and probably has curfew, still goes to high school and may be a lil immature. If your willing to spend time with a girl who still has her parents in the way, then go for it. But its going to be tough. I dated my first bf when I was 16 and he was 18 and he hated how my parents had me be home by a certain time. It was difficult on our relationship. Good luck
2007-02-04 03:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, I wouldn't encourage that. It seems a lot of my guy friends too get attracted to the young ones..damn. hahaha..anyway, although I DO sometimes look down on it, I just think overall, if the two of you dig each other, then that's that. If it makes you happy, then it makes you happy and there's no question to be asked about happiness. So if it works for the two of you I say go for it.
2007-02-04 03:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by mommy.luv.jordyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really means that much to you, stick around wait awhile dont be in a rush to get things started if she is the one then waiting will be no problem and in the end when she is older it should all work out.
2007-02-04 03:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to put ourselve in your shoes and reply... cuz many thing take place before we arrive at that decision... But yes, since sex has always been a mysterious and pleasurable act it is always difficult to resist oneself - especially when a girl is ready..
2007-02-04 03:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til she isn't jailbait buddy. if you like her that much, it shouldn't be a problem. plus there isn't anything wrong with taking a relationship slow and not pushing sex (which is the illegal part in this situation) she's 14 for god's sake.
2007-02-04 03:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by sprklngdimundz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you want.
But I would suggest you wait until you get out of college for you and her to get married. And wait until you both have a good paying job, before you raise a family.
2007-02-04 03:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by AARON BLACK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait til she turns of age or you may have more than you bargained for. Join a club or spa you'll be surprised of what you'll fine.
2007-02-04 03:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't even THINK about going there. It's not worth it, unless you like prison.
2007-02-04 03:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only illegal if her parents dont approve of it if they do then yea go out with her but u know dont "knock her up"
2007-02-04 03:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Perfection 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋