we want to be together, but i know what everyone is going to think. i'm so confused!
2007-02-03 19:14:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, we havn't had sexual intercourse yet. i'm not planning on it. we have known each other for a few years and we just develop feelings over time. i have played in his band for 2 years.
2007-02-03 19:39:04 · update #1
Its illegal for him to date you...
2007-02-03 19:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What could you two possibly have in common? Well maybe there are somethings ie; music television but that's as far as it could go really. I have a big problem with anyone who is twenty two that wants to be with a fifteen year old.
What's wrong with either of you dating people of your own age? You two are asking for problems on both ends in the long run quit while you can. I'd say friends maybe,but dating I dont think so! I mean try to find yourself someone of your age that does the same things you do like school,homework,recess,pep rally/games,mall,movies etc. Just doesn't seem right and what does he do while you're in school ? Save yourself from the heartache before you get too connected just my opinion *shrugs*
2007-02-04 04:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've seen, a relationship like the one stated tends to end up with the younger one feeling pressured by the older one to move too quickly. Sure, 7 years isn't much when it comes to older relationships, but in high school and college, 7 years is a great deal of difference. The maturity levels are totally different, and the social pressures are totally different. If you feel that you guys could last through the obstacles of a normal couple plus a bunch more due to the age gap...then more power to you.
2007-02-04 03:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by LTD 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Any 22 year old man that is interested in a 15 year old girl is really only out for one thing. SEX. If he really loves you he will give you time to get older before he wants to have sex with you. If that is not it then he is just a very immature 22 year old. Look out, from my own experience you are headed for a heart break.
2007-02-04 03:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by smhmmcd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its odd for a 22yr old to love a 15yr old, technically if there is intercourse of sexual play then that is child rape and the 22yr old can get arrested and have to register as a sex offender. I would not pursue a relationship more then likely the 22yr old only wants you for his pleasure and not your feelings.
2007-02-04 03:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by ompie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt right in the eyes of people but the thing is what if he really doesnt like you as much as he says? he has more experience with words and you could be just falling for his words i think that you should think twice before making any rash dissisions but if you two really love each other then nothing else should matter hope this helps some!
2007-02-04 03:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by LovelyHeather 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
age is only a number and shouldn't matter unless your parents are not to happy with the idea because in most cases a 22 year old could get into serious trouble for dating a 15 year old. good luck :)
2007-02-04 03:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the 15 year-old is a man, and the 22 year old is hot then it is closer to being alright, but not really until he is 18
2007-02-04 03:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tuco 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honestly I think it isnt ok..
Sure y'all have feelings for each other...
But come on thats a grown A$$ man.. and he shouldnt be loving on a 15 year old child...
2007-02-04 03:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by sammyd734 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
According to the law, it's not okay. (Well... it depends on where you live and what the laws in your state/country are.)
But, in my opinion, it's fine, as long as you're both completely committed to each other and that you both truly love and care for each other. Good luck!
2007-02-04 03:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear
you are such a fool madam if you love each other just go ahead listen i am about to get married to a guy who is 7 years elder
2007-02-04 03:21:11 · answer #11 · answered by chubby cheeks 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋