So i did something i know was TERRIBLY wrong.
Not gonna say out here on the internet. . .
but It involved a guy i really liked. And a guy i barely knew.
I did something with the guy i barely knew, and then did something with the guy i liked right after. My whole school found out about it, and some random person went up to the guy i liked and told him what i had done prior to making out with him. He got very upset, and it's been 2 months since i've talked to him. What can i do or say that will make him understand that i realized what i did was wrong, and that i miss him a lot, and wish that he could forgive me. . . Help!!!! Pleeeeeeeaaaassseee.
2007-02-03 19:08:00 · 4 answers · asked by LaX 42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should pursue this guy anymore. He won't ever trust you, even if he can forgive you, and trust is way too important in a relationship to think that you can have something good with him if it isn't there.
I'm sorry that this happened to you, and I am not judging you when I say this because I messed around a little too...
but I don't feel sorry for you...
because this will be a great opportunity for you to learn that sometimes when you do the wrong thing it cannot be fixed. You sound young, and the sooner you learn this, the better. I'm glad you are remorseful because that means it won't happen again.
As for making the best of things now, you can apologize to him, ask his forgiveness, forgive yourself, be kind to the guy in the future, and each find your own next good thang.
Play nice in the future so you don't repeat your mistake.
2007-02-03 19:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by musicimprovedme 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha sucks to be you. you should have thought about that before you did whatever you did. most guys know that girls do this all the time, guys just like to think it never involves them. you will both get over it. it sounds like nothing but lame high school drama (or middle school i dont know where u are). Its really his choice to make, if he wants to make amends he will come to you; dont you think YOU've already done enough?...
2007-02-04 03:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can guess what u did by u saying " prior to making out with him' now besides that thats nasty i dont think he is upset more than emberassed I mean what I THINK U DID is pretty bad but i think just telling him wont do a thing you gotta come better then that
2007-02-04 03:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Perfection 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think two months was enough for him to simmer down. Just let go of all your ambitions and get what you want. The best way to tell someone something is to tell them -- face to face.
Good luck with everything thoughh. :o)
2007-02-04 03:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo! Answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋