Your view on sex. Do they have to be good at it?

Question

So is sex important? Do you have to have it? If you do then does it have to mean something or can it just be sex? What is your take on the sexual revolution? Is sex something you can talk about with the person you are having it with, like on how to improve? Do you worry about catching a disease? Do you wear condoms?

I am writing a paper about how we treat sex.

I am really interested in your view of sex and what you think about protection, do you worry about catching something since so many have AIDS? Do you ask your partner questions or do you just wing it?

Answer 1

i think that sex nowadays has become something less than what it was viewed as before. i mean, before, people treated is like it was something sacred, an act that you did with those whom you loved and felt for. but today, people do it with anyone, even complete strangers.

having sex is something one should consider carefully before doing. STDs are spreading, and contracting one could prove debilitating for others, even fatal, like having AIDS. everyone should be careful. if you want to have it, be sure that you're protected first. some people have sex just for the fun of it, not love for whoever they're having it with, and if that should be the case, then all i can say is that that person should make sure he/she is well-protected against STDs first. that's what condoms are for. PROTECTION.

Answer 2

It is something that can make or break a relationship. The reason for having it is to bring you closer to the person you care about. There isn't any other way to become as one with someone you care about. That feeling of two as one in every way. It is something words can never express if you are doing it for the right reason. Yes, you should wear a condom if you are with someone that isn't your one and only. There are to many disease's along with Aids and HIV. You may trust the person you are with when they say I have never had such a thing or been with anyone who is positive. But for your on safety you should be protected. Life is to short! I believe that sex is something that you can get better at. Alot of that has to do with the person you are with. If they enjoy sex and want to try new things you never no what you may learn. The thing is to be comfortable with your partner in every way. If they make you feel good you can do the same for them. It should be a fulfilling fun event, not alot of pressure to do your best. Just go with the flow and see were it takes you!!!

Answer 3

Well, I'm 52, so I feel qualified to give my opinion. Sex is important to keep closeness in the relationship. How often you have it is different for each couple. Some people just have sex with someone that they aren't dating, and if all you want is gratification that's ok. But these days a condom is a must. If the guy refuses to wear one, I'd find someone else. Even if your sex partner says they are disease-free, it's not worth risking your life just for gratification. And yes, communication is necessary to have an enjoyable experience. If you feel funny saying something, maybe move the persons hand, etc, or change your position.

Answer 4

Very important, must have it, i would like it to mean something, but if that's not gonna happen i'll just take the plain old sex. yeah, I can usually talk to my partner about it. Yes, i would worry if i were permiscuous, i use condoms only when necessary.

Hope that summed it up for you.

Answer 5

yes i love it but i only have it with one person. i didn't used to before i met him but i always went to the doctor to checked for diseases and aids once a year and i always used protection i have to have sex it is like an addiction but only with my man

Answer 6

you want to IM and talk about sex?

Answer 7

These days I just keep my pants on.