they been going out for a year and half and supposably love each other and they havent been sexually active either ?
2007-02-03 18:06:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wrong wrong wrong!! if its love it will wait till she's of age!!! how could this go on for sooo long ?? man oh man this one gives me the willy's!
2007-02-03 18:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sherrysfunstuff 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't think 15 year old girls (or boys) should be dating.
The age difference is not all that big a deal. I married my first wife when she was 19 and I was 23. We were 4 and a half years apart in age. My current wife is also five years younger than me. But the four years between ages 15 and 19 make a BIG difference in girls.
Is the man in this relationship simply immature for his age or developmentally challenged? If it is the latter there is an additional and very different issue at stake here.
All in all I'd say it's a bad idea and there isn't any way to turn it over where it sounds like a good one.
2007-02-03 18:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is... nicely 15 is somewhat youthful, and human beings from the outdoors looking in would imagine that there is a few thing fishing happening, yet see you later as your intentions are authentic then its superb... keep in recommendations females mature swifter then boys anyhow so a 16/17 year previous lady will probable have a adulthood element matching yours. So in my view there is not any longer some thing ill or.... incorrect about it, only see you later as you're not to any extent further utilising them, and also you're easily attracted to THEM and under no circumstances what they could do for you. Then that is enormously a lot known... age shouldnt be a ingredient.
2016-11-25 00:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not right.... sounds weird. It's like a 20 year old with a 40 year old man. Just doesn't sound right. Age is just a number but not when there is a really big difference like that. Maybe they can when she's a little older but the girl I think is too young to even date.
I hope I don't sound insulting. Sorry if I do! :(
2007-02-03 18:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by somebody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that your 15 yr old girl should wait unitl she graduates college and has good college education. And she should get married, but marry someone who is somewhere in between 10 years older, or 10 younger nothing over 10 years
Good luck
I hope this helps
2007-02-03 18:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by AARON BLACK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's O.K. as long as they don't have sex until she is 18 years old. That is as far as the law is concerned. Having sex is still a sin until they are married. It is only a five year age difference. There have been successfull marriages with much bigger age differences. However the 15 year old should not make any major decisions until she is older. Best wishes.
2007-02-03 18:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shot the dumdass and move on. Better yet to go out with a 17 year old guy that act's like he's 20
2007-02-03 18:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by anthonys152000 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If they are not sexually active then it's legal. But, the moment they decide they want to knock boots, he can legally go to jail if her parents press charges. Even if he acts 17, his legal age is 20 and he can get into trouble for this relationship.
Tell them to stay sexually IN-active! Keep it pure, keep it simple.
Cheers
2007-02-03 18:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's just not right, in my opinion. Life is too short? Well, think of it this way, no matter what mentality the girl has, it's not something that should take place, especially if the word "love" comes up. I don't think anyone that young knows the true meaning of love. It's more 'puppy love' if anything.
Tsk tsk tsk...
2007-02-03 18:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is inappropriate. A girl that young should be with someone closer to her own age, and a man that age should be with someone closer to his own age. And that is the major difference. One is a child and one is an adult. They should be, and likely are, in different stages of their lives, with different levels of responsibility. They probably don't have very much in common. The temptation for a physical relationship will be there, and if that should happen, in most states, the 20 year old could find himself in prison if he gives in to that temptation.
2007-02-03 18:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by minemeus 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No I would not approve of it. What if she wants to marry him later? I would discourage the relationship. There really is no future as he would be unable to be a good provider for them if they became too serious. She could very well become a teen mom, and you would be stuck supporting all three of them. You could be in denial if you think they haven't been having sex.
2007-02-03 18:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋