I do not have ANY friends,i have not been on a date for about 3 years...i feel so alone the pain is really getting to me.....my mother and i have a terrible relationship...she is ALWAYS critiscizing me,yelling at me..running me down ect. I have to live with her right now because i lost my job and have no where else to turn.I have a dad but he has never been there for me emotionally.I am so depressed it is getting harder to keep going..please help!
2007-02-03 18:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
hey im 38 and im alone and sad and i live alone! I have 2 cats and no girlfreind i dont know how old you are but trust me things do get better...you cant see the forest for the trees right now but i would suggest you find a hobby of something you love and then hopefully in doing that you will find a partner..be careful what you ask for thou...somethimes being alone is preferable...you will probably miss your peace when its gone so enjoy this time and good luck!!
2007-02-03 18:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, me too honey!!!!! First of all make some steps and tactle one issue at a time, try get some work, and then when youve got some cash flow look for some new accomodation, who knows who you'll meet in a new job and new house, and as quickly as life can turn crap and you loose it all, something wonderful can happen just as quick, lets get you back out there and in the line ready for wonderful coz it'll never come knocking on your mums door.
2007-02-04 02:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by wil petal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have a computer and there are plenty of people you can talk to on there keep looking for a job so you can get out on your own. Its tought to rely on others when your used to being dependent on yourself. I have been in the same position and im sure you would feel better when you can take care of yourself better. feel free to e-mail if you want to talk i dont think you need a doctor quiet yet.
2007-02-04 02:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by BOBBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what you want to hear but it's not really about that. I may be criticized for saying that believing in Jesus Christ is what has always helped me but it is simply the truth. But outside of religion, I am willing to be someone you can talk to and accept you for you.
2007-02-04 02:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by charlijo_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor and get put on some medication for your depression.
Make an effort to make friends.
Move away from your mom.
2007-02-04 02:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step is you need to concentrate on getting away from your mom. Her behavior is most likely what is bringing you down.
2007-02-04 02:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need a friend I do too, and if you need a place to live I need a roommate for my house. look at my profile and get back to me I need a friend.
2007-02-04 02:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Vince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun
if u need a chat add me 2 ur msn honeybabydoll@hotmail.co.uk
i will be happy 2 help in any way i can ....
2007-02-04 02:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there we were put here for a resin there must be someone you can talk to.
2007-02-04 02:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by brnlsr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋