This guy has been calling me and makeing fun of me and I tell everyone I dont care but hes gotten to me and hes breaking me down and my selfasteam is at an all time low.I cry when I look in the mirrior and I feel worthless.How could I make myself feel better.
2007-02-03 18:00:43 · 9 answers · asked by Crysta 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
He's jealous of you, or he wants you in some way. Move on from the bullsh*t, ignore his calls, hang up on him or whatever you have to do to stay clear of him.
If you have friends that you are close to, rely on them right now, that's what they are there for. Always have a friend with you in social scenes too in case he comes around.
You are far too pretty, and way better than this dude to be sweatin' the crap he is causing you. Stay strong. The less you feed into it, the less he will do it and eventually he will disappear.
2007-02-03 18:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Aimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to him, dont accept his calls, and if he sneaks through when you forgot to screen, flat out tell him he's a jerk and he's bumming you out. Unless he's pathological he shouldnt get delight out of knowing your hurting, i think some guys think their being funny and they have no idea there not, or they want to talk to you but they dont know what to say so they just end up being a jack as*, i think giving him the opportunity to stop it and fix his behaviour and apologise is better as you will for sure see that he has is the problem if responds inappropriately if you say he's offending you. Long story short, dont give other people the reins to your self esteem, hold onto them firmly yourself, and if somebody is out of line in something they say to you, pull them up on it!!!!! ((((((hugs)))))) I hope you regain some of you esteem soon.
2007-02-04 02:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by wil petal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is because u let him u have basically 3 options #1start making fun of him back im the king of insults tell him his dad has aids his mom is a drag queen he should grow a beard to hide his ugly face there is a bunch #2 ignore him & remove him out of your life #3 let him keep doing it, btw if u need any more ideas for insults msg me
2007-02-04 02:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever hes sayin about u, say it to ur self as the opposite. so i hes sayin ur ugly then look at urself in the mirror and tell urself that u r pretty. u could try walking away from him. keeping a diary about how u feel can help. have a total b***h fest about him in ur diary or with ur mates. it helps heaps and its always good for a laugh.
2007-02-04 02:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by *lil miss* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a girl, and the best way to react is to be part of a girl group and try to badmouth him to all the girls u know. See how he feels...guys are usually intimidated by girl groups
2007-02-04 02:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block him, he is only trying to get to you, probaly because you already got to him.
Hang up on him, dont give him the pleasure of knowing your listening, it shows you care about the opinion.
2007-02-04 02:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rise above it. Tell him ONCE to get lost. Then either ignore him in person, or don't take his phone calls.
Don't get involved with abusive people in the future.
2007-02-04 02:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get professional help and tell the SOB to leave you alone...or get a restraining order against him. That is harrassment.
2007-02-04 02:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Christine T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the asshole needs a kick in the head?
2007-02-04 02:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by onemark1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋