i dont want to tell him i might be if im not ,but i think he should know.when is the best time to tell him and how?
2007-02-03 17:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by misshotcakes2u 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After you know you are...Take a test...
2007-02-03 18:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to take a walk with you. When you are away from friends and family members, (but preferably with people around, where you feel safe), tell him that you are worried that you might be pregnant. Then tell him exactly why you think that. He may react badly, it will be a shock for him. Don't get into an argument. If he gets upset, tell him that you are going home and that you will talk about it later after he has thought about it and calmed down. I hope everything works out O.K. for you.
2007-02-03 18:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it when you find out that you are. Dont tell him that you might be pregnant becuase that could just freak him out, or make him really happy. Say it freaks him out then you are going to have him stressing out about it as well as yourself untill you can find out for sure. If he wants it and is excited about it without knowing if you truly are that may cause some problems. If it comes out negative and he really wanted one he would try to convince you to have one. Now if you are trying to have a baby and really want one then you could possibly tell him that you might be pregnant just tell him not to get him hopes up if you guys find out that you are not really pregnant. In either of these situations I would wait to tell him about it untill you know for sure if you are or are not.
2007-02-03 18:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap! First of all, are you aware of the infinite amount of complexities you are going to be adding to your life.
Have you decided to have the baby?
If so will you keep it or put it up for adoption?
Are you ready to give up the life of clubbing, meeting new and interesting people, first dates, one night stands, etc?
Well, if you both do the responsible thing, it will mean having to sacrifice a lot for the next 18 years.
When my woman told me, my heart stopped (I think). It felt my whole life flash before me and how now our future would not be ideal.
Tell him somewhere that is comfortable and private. Good Luck!
2007-02-03 18:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you might be pregnant? Have you checked with a pregnancy test? I think you should do that.
And if you really are pregnant, then it is the best time to tell him. Meet him, and tell him what is going on, and consider his decision. Discuss carefully.
2007-02-03 18:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by M Asteria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the earliest possible time, because you wait to long and you know for a while the boy will be pissed. but dont tell him at a time he is sad, mad, or happy, because if you tell him when he is happy he could become sad. if he is already mad he may get worst, and the same with sad. trust me i know, it has happened to me twice before, but only once it was true.
Good Luck, hope you make the right decision.
2007-02-03 18:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by playatm25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think the first thing to do is find out for sure then when you know tell him the truth.
2007-02-03 18:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Angel wings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him when you get a picture if the ultra sound.( thats when you go to the doctor)what you could say is *baby i think you need to know something and its important. hand him the picture* good luck and best wishes
2007-02-03 18:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a home pregnancy test and then you can tell him if you are. That way if you are not then you don't need to make a big deal out of nothing.
2007-02-03 18:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, get a home test, then tell him, open and honest.
2007-02-03 18:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋