Why cant a woman love sex & everything about sex without people looking down on her? Im 35yrs old & I love sex mostly with younger men. Im not ashamed of loving sex & I dont have issues with sex on the first date if its something we both want. I dont have a problem admitting that I masturbate daily & I love watching porn. If I was a man I would be considered a legend but since Im a woman I get nothing but gasps & dirty looks. Why cant society grow the hell up. Why am I judged? Im safe about sex & no one is forced.
2007-02-03 17:57:04 · 23 answers · asked by do_U_kno_? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its great that you love sex
2007-02-03 17:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with you as long as you aren't hurting yourself. What you described is a very healthy sex life, I would hope that all of us have the same. I understand how you feel about being judged. When I was in the Army a female was considered either a dike, *****, or a whore. We were solely judged on our sexual preference much like gay people. So yeah if we have sex with a couple of guys we are skanks but if guys have sex with a couple girls then they get a pat on the back and a way to go dude.
I like to get my freak on, I enjoy sex, but I don't wear my sexual orientation on my sleeve. Unless you are a girl friend then we talk shop. I am usually the one who is more open. I feel everyone has the right to do what they want. It's not my place to judge you. I enjoy sex and in order for me to do so I am careful not to catch a disease. My sexual partners wear raincoats until they get a check up and an AIDs test. This weeds out the ones who aren't worth it.
2007-02-03 18:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I like you right away . It is the stupid double standerd thing. I like a woman that likes sex. Some of the best days I have lived involved sex. Most girls I meet act like ;you have to buy them lots just to earn a chance at sex. Most act like they don't care about sex . Then we get to the bedroom and they enjoy themselves .The next day though it is the same thing with them.
If two people like each other ; there is only so much you can do before you get into the bedroom ! Who cares how soon or how often .I wish more women were more open to saying hey we like it and that is perfectly ok. I suppose many are brought up to think it is a bad thing to have those desires and admit it.I think many guys would say hey right on .
I think it is a turn on for a girl to be a pleaser . I don't like teaser or church virgins myself. A sexy well experienced woman who can please me is way better than any uptight virgin any day !
2007-02-04 16:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by conan999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see any woman who likes sex a skank it is when they sleep with a different guy every night or they are in a committed relationship and sleep around with other guys that makes them a skank. A guy would be considered just as bad if he did the same thing. If you are ever looking for someone I am open.
2007-02-03 18:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the classic double-standard in American society. I love sex, masturbating, and porn as well and I, too, have experienced the judgement, gasps, and dirty looks. I think the best thing we girls can do is be a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. We shouldn't broadcast our sexual activity. Keep it to ourselves but still crave it!
2007-02-03 18:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I dont think there is anything wrong with your personality. It only gets wrong if you cheat on someone during your escapades. But apart from that, you are perfectly normal. Also, I agree with you about the society looking and pointing fingers. They are just shallow minded people and also know that those who judge you probably do the same thing so you shouldnt be bothered by anything. Just live your life as long as no one gets hurt by what you are doing.
Hope I answered your question.
2007-02-03 18:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Galinsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately in this society that's the way it is. A man can screw 100 woman in 3 months and is called a pimp. A woman screws 10 guys in 3 months is called a whore. It's sad the way labels are handed out. Really not much we as women can do about it, but call a man a whore and reject him.
2007-02-03 18:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people their sexual hormones are over produces sending them into a sexual rampage.. It naturally normal just as long as you dont have sex with a random person you met in a hour. If you do that then yes you can call yourself a skank
2007-02-03 18:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by luver_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just life everyone judges people by their actions all i can say is that if you are going to sleep around you oughta think twice because you can wind up with sexually transmitted diseases or even aids i like sex and porn too but only with my man no one else
2007-02-03 18:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care so much about being judged? It sounds more like you have the issue. Have sex, love it...just don't be trampy about it. Kissing and telling is gross, we don't want to know the details!
2007-02-03 18:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋