I am a married male. I would like to get a resolution to my problem. Whenever, I see a thick sports type body builder male person, immediately, my mind is interested to have sex with him. But, I have never had a chance to have sex with male. Can anybody help me out how to come out of this situation?
2007-02-03 17:19:04 · 24 answers · asked by Bharat V 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Dude you are gay. That is why.
2007-02-03 17:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbling Dice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will try to give you an objective christ based response. You probably know that it is wrong to cheat on your wife and that is why this is an issue. You need more non-sexual male friends to fill in your obvious deficit. You are being influenced (tempted) by demonic forces that seek to destroy your marraige through this common weakness you have. Think of this the same way you think of pedophilia, grand theft, murder or drug experimentation (all dangerously destructive as homosexuality truly is) The only solution is a solid love relationship with christ and the people of God. Here is the name of a website that can help you. I wish you the best.... www.exodus.com
2007-02-03 17:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For what ever reason deep in your head you are attracked to men that are phycically fit. As humans we can't however just change what gets out attention. Since you are married it does make it even harder to sort things out, I am sure. People have tryed to stop the feeling they have for the same sex but most can only do it for a short time Then it gets to the point when they have to change their lives and be who they truly are, whatever that may be for a person. Everyone needs to be who they really are andf you are the only one who might know who that is. I am not saying cheat or through away a marrage. But you do need to be true to your self. I can amagine the confusion is awful. One thing you need is someone to talk to that can help you through this. Someone you trust.
2007-02-03 17:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by melindarix@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could anybody help you out. Are we supposed to get into your head and make you not like men? You obviously have a problem. It is only a problem because you are married to a women that would probably be infuriated if you told her that you like guys. Maybe she will be in to it and want to have a threesome with a bi guy and you both will be able to get it on, but I highly doubt it and you most likely are screwed.
2007-02-03 17:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
You have stated that you are married. Do you have a healthy sexual life with your wife (i.e. both of you must be satisfied with your love making)?
If yes, then you are just bi-curious/bi-sexual. Find out yourself.
If the answer is no, then it sounds like you are a gay.
There are few solutions:
- Find a man who gay/bi-sexual and ready for no strings attached sex and find out fou yourself whether you like to be with a man. You can find plenty from the dating (or swingers) websites.
- Try to control your mind. Meditation might help.
- Consult your doctor.
2007-02-04 01:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by ma31ab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck i love looking at hot guys, most of us never get those ripped ab men anyway. If you can go for it!
I guess your gay, or bi, whatever enjoy, it, try to meet someoen gay and find out, be nice and kind and see what happens. Usually the good looking guys, a lot of them most guys wont talk to because they are afraid of rejection. Be bold!! go for it!! talk to them. you might be surprised!!
2007-02-03 17:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by gipster1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably gay or bisexual. You have several options:
1. talk with someone at your local gay and lesbian center. They can offer you good counsel
2. talk to a therapist about the pros and cons of dealing with your feelings. Do you have children? Are you attracted to your wife sexually?
You have some tough issues to deal with. Please seek help.
2007-02-03 17:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don;t want to say you're gay because maybe youre bi and just have a fantasy of sleeping with a man
2007-02-03 17:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a therapist who deals with sexual orientation issues ASAP! That is the person who will be able to help you, not anyone here.
2007-02-03 17:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jamir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women are attracted to "strong" men because they seem healthy and active. It probably goes back to some sort of primitive, subconscious desire to choose a mate with "good genetics" lol
2016-05-24 01:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get good sex from a woman , don't go to the Hershey highway it is nasty.
2007-02-03 17:22:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋