my g/f has not did sex before .?

Question

she asked me to do sex with her for first time .and she told me that she afraid for first time sex.help me what i do with her to pass this night sucssesfly.

Answer 1

Make a big deal to make it special, because it is.

Be romantic and set the mood. Lighting, aroma, flowers, the whole works. Make a nice evening of it. Treat her nice and make her feel special before hand. Lots of cuddling, touching and caressing (not just grabbing at her). Help ease her anxiety and help her feel especially close to you and basically start turning her on. You should know her well enough to know what turns her on. You should also control your urges and let her set the pace. She's nervous enough as it is without having to worry about your wanting to get on with it.

When she's ready, take her to the bedroom and lay her beside you. Treat her gently and do lots more foreplay until she tells you she's ready to have you, and not one moment before. Have personal lubrication available and use it. Chances are it's going to hurt a bit or will be uncomfortable for her when you do it. So listen to her and do what she tells you. Go slow and be gentle. Let her control the pace so she can get used to receiving a man. If she wants to stop doing it, then stop. Don't get all upset about it. Let her know that it's perfectly OK to stop even if you are all worked up and have to finish another way. No pressuring and no sulking. She doesn't need the added stress of having to worry about you.

From there and with lots of respect and gentleness for her, hopefully nature will take over for the both of you. When you are done, cuddle her.

Good luck :)

Answer 2

I really think you and her should talk about it and find out what she likes and her turn ons too,but women love candles and romantic music.Make her feel so special and talk to her the whole time make her feel comfortable,and listen to what ever she's telling you at that time.

Answer 3

dont f*ck her brains out.... lol