Me and my ex haven't talked or nothing for like already 5mon. and im still in love with him and i cry over him all the time do think im just stupid for still being in love? And if it was you would you call him and tell him how you feel? I still want to know how hes doing because where he lives is not a good place and theres known to be drive by. Once his little brother got shot and im worried about him and i love him to death and i never really got 2 tell him how i feel but i always said i love you and i really did. I never got the chance to tell him how important he is to me!
2007-02-03 17:08:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him now and tell him.Your not stupid you just have feelings for him still.I had feelings for my ex and i told him how I felt.now were back together.
2007-02-03 17:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by whats up? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not stupid, far from it. Your just a girl in love, a girl who has never stopped loving, and thats not a bad thing at all. However if you ex is the one who ended the relationship, he is the one who would have the answers to what went wrong between the two of you, no one else. Would I call him, NO. Has he called you, NO. What do you think this means? You could ask him if there is a chance that the two of you could maybe talk so you can have closure to how you feel, so you can carry on and heal your wounded heart. If it is over, than you are starting a new beginning without knowing where the starting point is. Sometimes we stumble alot before we find our footing again. It is a time to pull your self esteem out of the clauset, stand up proud, and show the world that you are not going to mope anymore. Show others that you have a life to live, and it did not end when the relationship did. You go Girl...do the right thing.
2007-02-03 17:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by karailatto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that telling him these things is going to make things any easier on you. If you honestly feel you want him to know that you always will care about him, send him a letter. But it has been 5 months...do not expect him to be feeling the same feelings for you. You are not stupid for still feeling love. I imagine this was your first love, and that is a lot harder to just get over. Do what you need to do, honey, but do try to get more occupied in the life you have where you are so you can eventually move on with your life.
2007-02-03 17:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not. You just feel care with him , that's it...
I've been through with a guy before, we love and care each other but, in the end we can't made up as a bf N gf... then we've had this misunderstood which leads us... not talking each other for about... 3-4 years. Then one day, he talk to me... until now, we never lost contact each other, although both of us have our own relationship with others. I do still care with him like how i would care my bf... i really don't want anything happen to him. If he can't be yours again, then be his very best if friend, be his friend mate....
2007-02-03 17:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're not stupid. Love is love, no one is in control of it. People feel love for years after breaking up. Its different for each person. Definitely contact him. Maybe better to write a note then call. After the note the call would be more comfortable. Don't turn your back on someone you love unless they give you no alternative
Good luck
2007-02-03 17:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i've been there. I didn't get over a guy I dated for like...atleast 7 or 8 months....but now I never even care about him. If you two broke up than its probably what God wanted to happen and he's saying "hey you (insert ur name here) I made this really amazing guy that would just make your life incredible if you'd just get over that other guy" when one door closes, another will open.
2007-02-03 17:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As worried as you are about him thre is not much you can do. Are you stupid? NO and don't think that way. You just need to learn to get over him and move on. All you have to remember is that you broke up for a reason and that it is probably better this way.
2007-02-03 17:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that makes you stupid then we're all in trouble.But I would not call him because if he has a girl friend and she answers the phone you'll be hurt.If he is missing you or thinking of you he will call you.Better yet find out where he Hungs and put on something sexy and make sure he sees you. He will take it from there.
2007-02-03 17:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all im going threw the same thing right now
me and my ex broke up like 2 months ago
and i cry over him almost ever night cuz i miss hima nd want him back
i even feel like im more in luv with him now then wen we were going out
2007-02-03 17:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by this would be me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a large amount of time passed by.
If it brings some closure to you, then buy a card and express your feelings to him.
If he feels the same, he will contact you.
If not, learn from the experience and move on!
2007-02-03 17:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you are not stupid, but you just do not know to handle the problem that you are facing. give it some second thought. do not jump to conclusion. there is nothing can not be solve in this world. try and you will no more cry.. ya?
2007-02-03 17:25:30 · answer #11 · answered by lutfi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋