the only thing he has told me lately is to leave him because he doesnt want me to have to deal with the stress of a new baby that she BABY MAMA is trying to pin on him and the results. I've done my crying and just want to be with him. What i do to convince him that no matter what im here?
2007-02-03 16:56:50 · 9 answers · asked by kaybee 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Hi Kay bee, Yes I too think your man is trying to let you down as easy as he can after being caught messing around on you. Tell him to have a DNA test and determine for sure he is the father. If he is then my recommendation to you is let him go. I think that is what he is trying to tell you but does not have the honesty too. He does not love you the same way you love him. Kay bee, I think he made a big mistake not loving you more than he has. Most of us are looking for someone like you. To be able to love us that much, even when we are not all you might want. He may want you for a cushion if things do not work out with the new one. To build up his Ego, " I'm Scr_____ two Girls at once" Big Deal ! He has no idea what he has managed to have in his life, Your love. I wish I or someone could make him understand how much love he has. What Ever you Decide Kaybee please do not choose a path that can destroy your ability to love like you do now. best of love!
2007-02-03 17:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by eudaemon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to let him know that no matter what you will be there for him but you need to also give him some space right now and let him figure out everything that's going on without feeling overwhelmed with the baby, the baby's mother and you all at the same time just let him know that you'll be there when he needs you and that you aren't going anywhere.
2007-02-03 17:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you for wanting to support him but maybe just give him time t get used to the fact he is a new dad I take it is ex has just had a baby and it belongs to him well he obviously is just trying to get his head around that all you can do is be there for him and maybe just give him a little space if and when he needs it
Good luck it will be hard sharing his time with baby and ex etc
2007-02-03 17:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by jonesshel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 09:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all USE SPELLCHECKER -it's easy
then
maybe give him a little space to think but stay close enough to know when he needs you and once he realizes that then all should be good
obviously he's going through a tough time right now and he just doesn't want to stress you out or add pressure to you and your world so
MAKE SURE that you know what you are getting yourself into and just stay close!
Good Luck!
2007-02-03 17:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's telling you to leave him cause he's feeling pretty guilty for getting another girl pregnant. So if he is telling you to leave and you stay with him still then it would be like your excepting the situation.
2007-02-03 17:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweet lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand what you are trying to say here. Can you rephrase and change the sentence structure?
2007-02-03 17:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by becki_normalgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to be there and help support his child! that you love him and your not going anywhere
2007-02-03 17:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by jule9104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just that.
2007-02-03 17:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋