me and my guy have been together for five months. he has a blue mohawk, rides a motocycle, has a billion tattoos, and his favorite beverage is a six pack.lol. but we haven't had any trouble. we fight but we always wind up in the bedroom within minutes of the argument. i just wanna know if we can make it last?
2007-02-03 16:47:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him and im not looking to change him! just keep him.lol
2007-02-03 17:20:32 · update #1
Highly doubtful. It kinda sounds like the only place you two make it work is in the bedroom.
2007-02-03 16:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't sound bad really, just not a conformist. Nothing wrong with that. Bad to me means criminal. If he's not in & out of jail or beating you up, I would say you two will be fine.
Just because you don't think your relationship is typicial, it doesn't mean it won't work. If you two can fight like cats & dogs but still hold on to that passion and remain happy, that's fine. It's whatever works for the two of you.
2007-02-03 16:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the lifestyle why not. Just because he has a mohawk or tattoos or drinks doesnt mean he's a BAD guy. I know you like the bad boys, but if he doesnt cheat, always works, and is dependable, then he's not a bad person. Just eccentric, which is what you like about him.
Never assume.
2007-02-03 16:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by curiousgeorge411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your solution to your problems is sex? That is not where problems are solved. The kind of problems you have need to be met with discussion and goal setting. For crying out loud, you need more content in your relationship. I'm not saying to dump the guy, but, dont you think there is more to being together than just laying in bed and gettin your groove on?
2007-02-03 16:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey meg i believe that any relationship can work but it has to be based on love and respect not just sex or you both will end up hurt. i would say get to know more a/b one another and find what else you have in common and delvelop that part of your relationship. you can have great sex with anyone. but a great conversation to me is more sexy. hey i married a bad boy my self and it's be 5 1/2 yrs. but he made the change himself. you can't change him into what you want. you both have to want to make it work and grow together. i wish you the best. take care.
2007-02-03 16:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your definition of bad boy. You don't really associate anything bad with this guy. I don't see any reason from what you've said why you don't have a future with this guy.
Bad boys to me are like liars and cheaters and do "bad" things like perhaps beat people up. In that case my answer would be hell no. Its a bad trait in a girl to like guys who act like that and hence a good girl doesn't stay with a guy like that.
I wouldn't let my sister date fty cent, know what I mean?
2007-02-03 16:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! I'm a square and I am a paralegal and my husband is a thug. We always fall for men that are opposite of what we are but that's what makes the relationship better. If you fall for someone that is not like you then you are strong at their weak points and they are strong at yours. My husband and I show each other different aspects of life. My husband and I complement each other. People look at us kinda strange and our friends have a whole lot to say but no one else lives our lives but us. What ever makes you happy, go for it.
2007-02-03 16:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it can work. That's part of the attraction and will keep it nice and steamy in the bedroom. Bad boys are not usually as bad as they appear to be. Good luck.
2007-02-03 16:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you tolerate his BS and don't have much of a say in things.
The wild one always does more stuff and so the tamer one has to put up with BS or break it off.
so, if you want a *real* relationship, one where you are equals, then the answer is NO
if you want to live vicariously thru his wildness, then have fun, but don't count on him to be there when you need him
2007-02-03 16:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by info monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, maybe not because u will possibly be too worried about the things he does wong. but sometimes you need a balance...so maybe he can spice u up a little and u can water him down some if that happens then you guys will probably be great.
2007-02-03 16:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Desire` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋