2007-02-03 16:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by super_chingon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same way you would behave on a date with any woman. I am a single mom. I'm engaged now, but while I was dating...guys did all the same things. They picked me up and we went out. I personally kept interaction between them and my son completely off, because I didn't want anyone getting in my son's life unless they were staying in my son's life.
Anyway, just take her out and have a good time. Be aware though that when she says she needs to get home, get her home. She probably has a sitter waiting.
2007-02-03 16:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a similar experience. These other folks might fail to understand that behaving like you would "on any other date" doesn't apply, since you're not dating in a standard social situation. Don't try to avoid the topic of "my kid....." because it tells her immediately that you're uninterested in her child, ergo, you're uninterested in forming a family. Even if you are, this is counterproductive to the success of your date, as she will be constantly reminded that "he doesn't like my kid."
So, be willing to talk about how you feel about kids, her kid, parenting, fatherhood... even if you have negative feelings about all the above. Just don't avoid the topic and awkwardness will disappear.
2007-02-04 00:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by tercellulite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you would if she wasn't a single mother...what difference does a child make on A date ???
2007-02-04 00:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to act any certain way. Just be confident in yourself and show her respect. Good luck!
2007-02-04 00:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like any other date. but if you aren't will, want to be a dad, you might want to stay away.
2007-02-04 00:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like yourself!
2007-02-04 00:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at her son/daughter and say nice trophy, then break something in her house
2007-02-04 02:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Not George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like with any other huh? what's the difference?
2007-02-04 00:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mah10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pleeeeease, just be yourself. if you don't you are wasting hers and your time.
2007-02-04 00:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by ilk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice..
2007-02-04 00:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by Syd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋