how to deal with my boyfriends ex-girlfriend?

Question

okay i have been with my boyfriend for a few months. and his ex-girlfriend is seriously like OBBSESSED with him!! on her myspace she says
"I love him and he loves me back!!"
ugghhhh and even though she goes to a differant school she sees him every sunday at church. she tried to watch him undress! and she has been obbsessed with him sence july-which was when they broke up. and she will never give up on him. she actaully thinks he will go back to her.
i have talked to my bf about this and he actually hates her. like
-would have a party if she died-kind of hate. so i know that he wont go back to her but she like stalks him and wont leave him alone and calls him 15 times a day and emails me saying

ur so lucky to be with him! he was the best bf ever!

and i dont know what to say because i dont want to be rude...but i guess there isnt a way to say "SCREW YOU" nicely now is there?
she even made out with a guy trying to make my bf jealous. which of course did not work.
pls help

Answer 1

Fornicate Ur self is a nice way to say it. I feel 4 U both, it's better to get exposed 2 this now cause it could come up again in Ur life time because this happens all the time, I wouldn't worry about my space I would even get off of it if Ur on it too, 4 awhile. U 2 know there's no way he would go back 2 this wild chick & I understand the feelings he has toward her. There is one in my life I will do a dance, but why waste my energy I'm letting that go, tryin too. U are lucky 2 be with him. Be taking this as a complement tongue in cheek complement.

U got as I see it a couple of choices. U could file charges but U said U didn't want to be rude. However on the phone any threat is a federal crime. That avenue is up 2 U 2.

I would not give her the satifaction if changing phone numbers but I would have another email address & slowly let Ur friends & important people & business have it , slowly use that 1 and keep Ur current 1 for spam or a back up address.

I see 1 more thing U 2 can do is laugh at it & get friends, (I'm not sayin spread rumors but???? ) laughing 2. Soon enough seh will get over him & leave yall alone.. I hope I helped or gave U something 2 think about. Whatever happens Good Luck