I'm just kind of bummed out and not sure what to do next. A few months ago, I went out with my best friend and she hooked me up with her cousin. Not normally something I do, but it had been a really long time since I was with someone. And I pretty much knew then it was just a one time thing, but I was okay with it. We're both adults, and we took the necessary precautions. Anyhow, ran into him again on New Years, and he wanted to hook up again, but I told him no. He called last weekend and apologized for his behaviour on New Years and said he wanted to take me to dinner. I was busy and said it would have to wait, but we talked every day and I seriously thought it was going somewhere. He came over the other night, and it happened again. I haven't heard from him since. Now, I'm hurt, angry and feeling pretty stupid. I just feel like if that's all he wanted, he shouldn't have spent so much time acting like he wanted to get to know me. And my friend hasn't even said a word.
2007-02-03 16:11:31 · 6 answers · asked by Just_Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he knew a for sure thing when he sees it sorry he just used you for sex. sure it hurts. but you learn from your mistakes
2007-02-03 16:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may sound cliche but guys are jerks and thats what they do, they'll lie to you and stuff just to get in bed with you and then dump you... I've never agreed with those kinds of hook ups for the reason that it's all sex and nothing more and because you hooked up with him the first time like that he lost his respect for you and now all you are to him is a sex object so you should consider this for next time you hook up with a random guy like that...
2007-02-04 00:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that first time you two did it sent mixed signals, remember you are dealing with a guy we don't understand anything especially at a young age to him its all about a piece of a**
2007-02-04 00:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks...i would call him..see what he is thinking..and if that is what he was thinking about..yell at him..lol..but seriously i would take it has a lesson..dont' give ur self up to just anyone..make sure that they love you and that you love them. that is y it is called...love..just be more careful next time.
2007-02-04 00:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by whatdoesitmatter05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you feel better now that you got that of your chest. drink some hot cocoa, and take a nap.
don't call him, let him use someone else
2007-02-04 00:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's an ****** dont thikn bout him he just wanted u to put out n u did n he took advantege of u.,................sorry but guys r so immature sometimes
2007-02-04 00:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Make Love Not War! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋