i was taking to my mom bout my boyfriend and she wanted to know wnat he looked like so i was telling her. I was telling her that i have not seem him since the summer. I was telling her where he live and all of the blue she goes forget him now and breakup with he....Should i keep going out with he or break up!!!!!
2007-02-03 15:59:34 · 13 answers · asked by i ♥ Javon!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and My were taking on are way home and she was asking bout the guys in my life so i was telling her bout my boyfriend. We were talking bout him then she told me to break it off. Me and Him are both 17 years old and what to be with each other..show i listen to my mom or what...
2007-02-03 16:12:30 · update #1
listen to your mom she knows whats best for you. I would not want my 13 yr old daughter having a b/f either . call him and tell him that your not allowed to see him again. Forget about having a b/f and concentrate on your studies
2007-02-03 16:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you are seventeen it's really your choice but i found out nine times out of ten mothers do know best .my mom was right now i am a single mom of two.by age 18 i had my first child the guy i was with my mom told me to leave well now he's a deadbeat dad. i would suggest that your boyfriend and mom meet and if she still feels the same after meeting him then i would follow mom's advice as long as she can give u a good reason to leave him but u should way out the pro's and cons of being with him and see if u see what your mom see's
2007-02-04 10:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, im going through the same thing right now. my mom found out some stuff about a kid that i really like, and now she wont even let me talk to him. i feel like i cant just give this guy up, so im gunna keep fighting for it. i say do wut ur heart tells u, but think it through and try and see where ur mom is coming from. in my case my mom didnt like that he dropped out of school & went to juvy, and she assumed that he was going to be a violent kid that would force me to have sex with him. i know he is not at all like this and i could protect myself, so this is y i decided to see him anyway. it seems like ur mom doesnt like where he lives maybe? if so, i think that isnt a reason to break up with him.
2007-02-04 00:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by alyssa ♥'s christopher :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try keeping in contact with him if you do not already. Perhaps if both of your guys' parents talked on the phone, you could come to a reasonable compromise (you may see him once every month, don't do anything unreasonable like intercourse, etc., you may go out to the movies, spend time together, etc.).
2007-02-04 00:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth V. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are or how old he is, but if I were you, I'd break it off. You are too young to be committed to a relationship like this. You need a chance to met and go out with others. And I'm wondering if your boyfriend is as true to you as you are to him.
2007-02-04 00:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom isnt dating this boy, you are. Live your own life, follow your own rules. You don't need your mom's consent or whatever, listen to what your heart says :)
Goodluck girl.
2007-02-04 00:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depend on the age that both of you are. if she feel that
he to old for you . etc then she may be right, but if you and this
young man can talk to her maybe she will get to know him
just talk to her, she just want was best for you.
2007-02-04 00:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With he? Nice grammar, little girl.
If you have not seen him dinces this summer, then you are not going out. Therefore, you technically can not continue going out with him or break up. It is all in your mind (and his pants).
Good luck with reality. Say hello to he for me.
2007-02-04 00:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever u feel like and if you make all the right choices you'll have an easier life
2007-02-04 00:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by metalsnake921 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK IT OFF AND GO TO SCHOOL AND GET TRAINED IN A FIELD THAT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE PRODUCTIVE. THEN THE TIME WILL BE RIGHT. YOU WILL MEET SOME GREAT PEOPLE IN SCHOOL LATER . YOUR MOM IS RIGHT
2007-02-04 00:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋