How would you feel if your guy wanted to enroll your son in...?

Question

cheerleading, tap, jazz, ballet, gymnastics and aerobics?

Answer 1

I'd be quite scared...

Answer 2

I recently just turned 15. I am about like your son, overweight but not like oh my gosh! We moved, I was not at all accepted by the kids at my new school. I was so scared and it was totally different than my old school. At my old school I was accepted for who I am. It got to the point where I wouldnt eat or drink and I kept throwing up. So my mom pulled me out and started homeschooling me. It's alright. However, I don't have any friends. So, In August, I am going back to public school. I am going to continue to lose weight. However, I know how your son feels. Its not at all easy. Just tell him to be strong. My parents and my parents friends and people that we know of that we will see at a store or whatever will say she is so pretty. Look at those blue eyes. But, I am thinking.. yeah, old people think that. Its hard. Maybe you could help your son lose some weight. Most of all, just keep supporting him. Remind him.. no one is any better than he is. I also know how your son feels about not wanting you to go to principals office. They will just call him a cry baby and say aww.. you ran home and told mommy. I've seen it happen before. It doesnt help. I hope all of this is making sense lol. Anyway, good luck to you and your son. I wish him the best. Just don't let him forget who he is.

Answer 3

Just ask him if he is gay! He might surprise the hell out of you and say yes...... Or he might break it to you that he is strait and your son is gay but there is something not quite right going on...... I know this is horrible but you need to spy on them both..... Do not assume anything but find out what is going on. Could be that there is a girl your son likes that is a cheerleader, ballet , gymnast, aerobics student and your boyfriend is giving him pointers. Just hope that is the case......

Answer 4

None of those are bad things. They are all great exercises. However, you have to put yourself in your son's shoes. First thing, putting your son in all of them is ridiculous and out of the question. Also, your son may not want to be in them for multiple reasons, such as being made fun of or not being interested. As far as wondering why your guy would want to do that to your son, I don't really know. He's probably not gay considering the fact that you and him are probably married and he had to "do the thing" with you to make your son, and not to be offensive or anything, but he probably enjoyed it. I would ask him his reasoning, and he'll probably give you a straight answer. Don't let it bother you too much, though.

Answer 5

All of you who assumed or mentioned the word "gay" just because the guy wanted to get the son involved in these very healthy exercise activities is way off base!! These activities do not bring an assumption of "gay" to my mind and most physically active people and/or shouldn't to anyone who knows the level of strength and commitment necessary for these sports.

Answer 6

There are a few ways to see this the best is he believes in being in those things because the girl to guy ratio is very high. Or he is gay and wants to bring your son over, or just wants to get your son beat up.

Answer 7

it may feel wierd but this guy may just want your son to develope a feminine side. which is not a bad thing. i've dated a few male dancers and cheerleaders and they were always sweeter than the other guys. and more understanding of emotions. probably because they were around alot of women all of the time.

Answer 8

I think Jazz is just great, and good look to him if he wants to get his son into cheerleading hahaha.

Answer 9

ummm...its wierd and it seems like "your guy" wanted a girl. those are girl activities and kids might think he is a homosexual (which there is nothing wrong with being) but because of all the stereotypical people out there. but if i had a son and he really wanted to then i would support him...

Answer 10

first of all ? not sure i understood your question ? are you talking about your boyfriend and your have a child from another man ?
if this is correct ? tell him to f mind his own business , and see what YOUR SON is interested in and not some guy whoever he is .................
and in return ? tell him to take ballet etc . it is very good for blood circulation ......................!!!!! and , i cannot say more .because i will get thrown out of Q/A and top it all .loose my points :-(
no man has ever said anything about my kids education or else ,besides their father .............and i .
tell him to get a life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

I don't know. Is this guy my husband? Unless he's my husband or my son's father, he shouldn't be enrolling him in anything. Otherwise, I would encourage it if that's what my son wanted, but only one or two.