My g/f is really shy and kind so I know I could do just about anything and even if she was uncomfortable she probablly wouldnt tell me, I'm her first b/f and I taught her how to french an ya.
So here's the story we where french kissing on my bed and I put my hand on her butt then i started going for her pu** and she moved my hand and I apoligized but I went for it again and she moved my hand then I kept kissing her and I went for it again and I started (fingering her) and she tried to stop me but I was really into it and I didnt let her and I did it for a few mins and said i was sorry after and I'm just worried if I scared her and if she'll leave me or if she really liked it and just didnt think she should be doing it being so pure and all. & it kinda turned me on kinda like the forbidden fruit.
Also I was wondering how I will know when shes ready 4sex or how I could get her to do somethin for me cause she's really shy and I know she'll never make the first move.
Help Thanks-Rocko
2007-02-03 15:43:52 · 32 answers · asked by Rocko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 17 she's 15,16 in march
2007-02-03 15:44:11 · update #1
Here she is so you can see why I cant help myself http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r137/Pippy_chimpy/blue058.jpg
2007-02-03 15:52:34 · update #2
You just committed sexual assault.
2007-02-03 15:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you really should have respected her wishes in the first place. There's no such thing as saying no but meaning yes. I think you're being a little blasse about this, and you owe her an apology.
It sounds to me like you're taking advantage of a girl who can't quite stand up for herself yet, and I'm asking you to be a man here and do the right thing. If she tried to stop you from touching her, what makes you think she's going to want to have sex?
You've gotta take it easy, Rocko. She's got feelings and sex should be an outspringing of commitment to a relationship. It sounds to me that if she has sex with you, it's because she felt pressured. That's one of the worst things you could do to a person, especially when you say you love them, or you care, or whatever.
Ease up on the expectations, man. And for the love of all that is friendly in the world, don't pressure her. That's what chumps do. I'm not trying to be a jerk here, but I just think you're being a little too casual about all this. And I hope you consider her feelings and how you may be pressuring her to do things she's not quite comfortable with.
2007-02-03 15:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by SnowFlats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her. Tell her that you respect her no matter what she Say's and that you will do whatever she wants. If you keep doing this she will probably end up leaving you. She will have more respect and like you if you are honest with her. Honesty is everything in a relationship. Good Luck. And watch the age difference it is illegal in some state's if you go to far and scare her you could end up in jail. Good Luck and respect her wishes.
2007-02-03 15:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooo, by the sounds of things she was "all up in it". You my friend are kind of an arshole(sorry). So let me get this straight....you tried fingering her not once but several times and she kept pushing your hand away......yeah she wanted it. I'm not really sure why your worried about getting her to do "somethin" for you, just stick her hand or head down your pants repeatedly until she gives in I guess. You need to back you **** up and apologize profusely, you've probably scared the bajeezus out of her. Be a gentleman!!!!
2007-02-03 15:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman says no several times and you persist, and you didn't let her stop you even though she tried, it's called rape. It doesn't matter if you think she may have liked it - you forced her. If she says stop, stop. If she wants you to continue, she'll let you know. Hope you're ready to be a father too, if you want to be having sex.
Oh, I see you've posted her picture now. Since she's pretty, that makes what you did ok? You'd better learn to 'help yourself' or you WILL end up in jail or beaten up by an angry father or brother. Keep it in your pants or in your own hands. No means no.
2007-02-03 15:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Grab a tube of lotion and get your nut off. Do NOT go reaching for the poon of a 14 year old if you are 17. Go and get rebuked by a hot 17 year old. You do not reach for the poon of a girl because you are "into it" -- you reach for it when she asks you to pleasure her. I'm sorry that the world has failed you. Your culture has failed you. Your president has failed you.
Listen... put the feelings of your girfriend first. She comes first. Be kind to other people. When she pulls your hand away -- leave your hand away.
Go and talk about this with your mom.
Print out my answer here and show it to your mom -- please. Don't ask the retards who waste their life at answers to answer this question -- find a real human that you love trust and respect.
Be kind to this young girl. Please.
About getting her to have sex with you: please find a girl your own age for this. You'll know she's ready when she turns 18.
2007-02-03 15:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Andy R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think you went a little to far the first time she pulled your hand away you should have stopped. You both need to sit down and talk about what happened and if she is ready to have sex she is the only one that will know when she is ready it will just happen you have to just be patient until she is ready don't forget you are her first boyfriend
2007-02-03 15:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by rockerchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try anything like that on her again. especially if she told you not to. Communication is the key. Talk and find out if you guys are on the same page with stuff. (If you have an instant messenger talk to her over that, because if she is shy then it would be really uncomfortalbe in person) You probably scared her off and also, your supposed to be in a relationship with someone because you love them for them and not just for action. You sound like you just want to get in her pants and dont care about her for her personality... Lay off the sexual stuff. Take it slow.
2007-02-03 15:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Quedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jail Bait
2007-02-03 15:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by gordonr83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u did go a bit far.
if a girl stops u from something a second time
then she really means it.
u'll know when shes ready when she tells you
no matter how embarissing it might be, u have to talk to her about it.
you have to know her thoughts on the subject.
best of luck
2007-02-03 15:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Roxy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rocko, please look up statuatory rape in your state and find out how long you would spend time in jail as someone else's love slave before going too far with this girl. Just a word to the wise.
2007-02-03 15:47:41 · answer #11 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋