What do I do if a boy........?

Question

I am in love with wo boys! what do I do? I know I like one guy better but, he is going to be harder to get and I don't know how he feels about me. The other guy who I still kinda like shares the same feelings. But, I know I like the first and harder guy better.
And How would I tell the person I choose I like them? I mean I have asked guys out before but this is just driving me crazy!!!!!

Also After I tell the other guy I like him Should I kiss him?


AHHHHHHHHH! what should I do?

Answer 1

Ok.. well guy number one, you're not sure if he likes you, so what happens if you take the risk to ask him out and he turns you down? If you are positive that you like the guy that is "harder to get," then maybe you should try flirting with him, or get in with his friends and in order to get the scoop on whether he is interested in you our not. However it is perfectly fine to ask guys out, but I'm sure it would be a lot easier if you knew he was interested, so try to find out first. Some guys may like it when girls take initiative, by asking them out, but I think you should wait a while until you kiss him, that may be TOO forward. As for the other fella, if you are somewhat interested in, and you know that he feels the same way, hey give it a try, and see where it goes, it won't hurt.. and if it doesn't work out, then you'll have plenty of others to choose from. Maybe even the guy that is "hard to get." Or, just take it slow, get to know them both very well, on a friendship level, and see where it goes from there, see which one is worth taking further.
OR maybe you can just befriend them both, while being single.. that way you have the opportunity to have them both in your life (but may cause conflict)
Hope you make the right choice!

Answer 2

sure tell him, then give him some passionate kisses, hold him close to you and see where things go from there