When I call her she sounds cheerful, but when i bring up us getting together she tries to brush off the subject. I told her that I want her to be my wife and mother of my future children and she sounds like she doesn't believe me. I have to remind her to call me. And she forgot to call me on my birthday. she use to call me everyday, but now she calls me once a week or less and i only talk to her when she decides to answer the phone. does she hate me? i still love her
2007-02-03 15:25:57 · 23 answers · asked by Kingston 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you give her a diamond? I bet you didn't.
You CANNOT ask her to be wife and mother without the jewels. Go to the shop and pick one out - make sure they will refund if she says no, or prefers a different style.
Listen carefully here. It should cost at least a month's pay. She knows how much she is worth and if you short change her, you will not get the expected result
Do it today.
2007-02-03 15:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by amazed_lab_rat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a good possibility that she is playing you. First of all if she was scared or if she did not like you she would not call you at all. I am a girl and it sounds to me like she is playing hard to get. Do not answer the phone for a couple of weeks and do not call her. If she is interested she will stop playing if she is not , she will not try to get in touch with you anymore. One way or the other you will at least know. Some people don't want things that they can have so easily. You are making it TO easy for her. You are there when she wants you to be and out of the way when she wants you to be. You have to show her that you have back bone and are not interested in the game.
2007-02-03 15:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont' think she hates you, that usually shows, lol.
But you need to back off for a bit and let her come to you.
Sounds like maybe you are pushing a bit too hard. Some women need to be the one chasing (as I am one of them, lol).
She needs to have time to realize what she has lost.
I don't mean a day or 2 either, I mean you need to move on with your life for a while, and then she will come crawling. Especially when you find somebody new.
She is just holding onto you as a rebound boyfriend.
I could be stripped of my PMS privileges by letting you in on this lol, but women typically keep a spare boyfriend, just in case the current or future relationship doesn't work, she still has you to fall back on. Don't be the spare!!!
2007-02-03 15:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has moved on but does not want to hurt your feelings. Do you really want to marry someone who forgets your birthday? You deserve better! Find a new girl that will be excited when you give a phone call and does something special for you on your birthday.
2007-02-03 15:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that she likes you only as a friend nothing more she probably don't call you because she is probably afraid of you bring up the thing about marring you or have your kids I think you should back it up a little bit and take it slow and don't move so fast. Just let it come nature.
2007-02-03 15:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by brownsugarsweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the part of being your wife scared her off not to be mean or anything. Most women just arent ready for that. Give her sometime try to talk about other things besides you and her and kids.. lol and no I dont think she hates you
2007-02-03 15:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be uncomfortable with getting together right now, especially when u bring up marriage, she isn't ready for that right now. she doesn't hate u, but not ready for a commitment like that, and it makes her feel uncomfortable when u bring it up. just back off awhile the reason for it will eventually come out.
2007-02-03 15:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she needs some time with her friends. u dont want to make her choosse between u and her friends it woont work out let her get a lil time with both and dont call so often take it slow like she is. Go with the flow
2007-02-03 15:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by charmed_julianne1994 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that she hates you, but if she loved you, she wouldnt have to be reminded to call and she would not have missed your birthday. It hurts, but you need to move on with your life.
2007-02-03 15:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may not hate you cause' she still answers the phone, what it seems to me that she is not interested anymore. Have you done anything bad to her before? If so, she probably feels hurt.
2007-02-03 15:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dengosa27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋