Ok, so here's the issue, at times, I feel that I am overly jealous when it comes to my relationship. It sounds childish, but sometimes I get mad when my boyfriend chooses to go out with his boys (which is every here and there.) I ALWAYS make an issue of it, and start to nag constantly. I don't feel that he is cheating??? I just want ALL of his time spent with me (yes I know, sounds very selfish) Also, I have a problem with him having female friends. He's had them before me, and it's not like he's talking to them consistently or seeing them, I just don't appreciate when they happen to talk. Mind you, we havent gone without seeing or talking to each other (It's been a little over 2 years now) BUT, if I don't get to see him or talk to him, I get really bothered. And sometimes even accuse him of things. I know all the things I am doing are not ok, but it's hard to control how I react to things. If I don't stop soon, this can end, and I don't want that, bc I love him. Help me please?
2007-02-03 15:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Loves It<3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is no problem. Everyone has this worry. Some people take it lightly others take it more strongly, like you. Just tell him how you feel and he should understand. If he doesn't understand you have to give him space. Instead of worrying and stressing you should go out with some of your girlfriends and go party. Have some fun and let him have some fun.
2007-02-03 15:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the international of male acquaintances. finally all of us finally end up falling in love with our lady acquaintances. some will do some thing about it, and some will settle for the actual incontrovertible truth that it would want to under no circumstances be. you need to be in a position of inform them that you're not to any extent further fascinated, and they should be in a position of settle for that and proceed to handle you as a sturdy chum. there is not any reason to end being being concerned, open and straightforward with them, see you later as you're making it very sparkling that they are acquaintances and under no circumstances have of project of a few thing extra. some will settle on they could't be round you, and consider to stay with it. yet some (the further perfect ones) will stick round, and be honoured that you regard them as a chum you may trust. only be straightforward in what you tell them. don't be scared. best of luck :)
2016-11-24 23:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....if he isn't cheating....it will just be a matter of time....you better get yourself together....or YOU are going to creat the very thing you don't want.
2007-02-03 15:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you - you identified your problem.
Please learn to reign it in and hold your tounge before you lose a good man.
2007-02-03 15:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋